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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am not close with my family

Posted: Yesterday, 10:57 am 

Replies: 12
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It also came to me that anyone who doesn't want to invest a lot of time in me but when it is convenient or out of obligation, are stuck up.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I have never had a significant other

Posted: Yesterday, 9:58 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 206


No, I have not but maybe I should. Thanks for the tip

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am not close with my family

Posted: Yesterday, 7:21 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 138


Thank you so much, everyone. It bothers me, every now and then, as it did over the weekend. That being said, I was grieving in depression and acceptance that my family views me as the black sheep. I have confronted them many times for treating me like that, but they either don't get it or don't care...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I have never had a significant other

Posted: 09 Aug 2020, 8:25 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 206


I have joined an aspie support group but I would love to find a few more, actually.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I have never had a significant other

Posted: 08 Aug 2020, 7:59 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 206


I am on here because I had never had a significant other and not have any good quality men ever really noticed me. I have had flings with me which has never worked out. I have also had a few people try to set me up with guys, but that never has worked out either. However, I seem to feel that women a...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am not close with my family

Posted: 08 Aug 2020, 7:46 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 138


I know what you mean and especially if your family is toxic and dysfunctional such as mine is. However, I am upset because I wish the circumstances were different where my family knew how to treat people and respect them. A few examples 1. 4 years ago, one of my sisters, who I had not seen in 11 yea...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am not close with my family

Posted: 08 Aug 2020, 5:49 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 138


I like the way you explained that and I will have to remember what you said. Though I have accepted it that I am not going to be accepted by my family, I have been grieving today because I am accepting it that they see me as the black sheep. I have been crying until I can't anymore.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am not close with my family

Posted: 08 Aug 2020, 3:06 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 138


Though I have learned that I am not close with my family being that I seem to be the "Black sheep", sometimes I feel v very sad about it. In the last 24 hours, it has been getting to me. 1. I had one family member who was the most supportive of me in my 20's, but we fell out in 2017 due to...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Anyone else find life weirdly a lot easier with face masks?

Posted: 04 Aug 2020, 12:17 pm 

Replies: 19
Views: 420


I hope I'm not the only one who feels like this, but for some reason, wearing a face mask outside has made it easier for me to interact with people. I think its the fact that I'm not being scrutinized more my RBF and there's a bit less pressure to decipher others' facial expressions (which I could ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How does one get invited?

Posted: 29 Jul 2020, 6:55 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 203


People only invite you if they feel you are compatible enough to be part of their circle or clique, and if they feel that you aren't, no matter how nice you are to them, then they won't invite you. Unless they're the completely selfless type that like to invite you because you're nice, but those ty...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How does one get invited?

Posted: 27 Jul 2020, 11:24 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 203


I would like to lead some interesting conversations, what do you recommend? I also would like to find things that are positive which people enjoy.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How does one get invited?

 Post subject: How does one get invited?
Posted: 27 Jul 2020, 10:57 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 203


Hi:
How does one get invited to things like lunch/coffee, movies, movie nights, etc. vs being acknowledged and people having conversations at a organization?

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: There's a person who claims others are abusing her

Posted: 26 Jul 2020, 6:43 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 410


I felt that this was post was downright nasty and also an attack against other people on WP, who otherwise come here for a haven. I honestly find this kind of post as a turnoff to people who are trying to reach out, and they get the cold shoulder from people who insist they know better than you.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: There's a person who claims others are abusing her

Posted: 25 Jul 2020, 12:07 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 410


Whatever, you can believe whatever you want, but neither I not her get our validity from you nor rather from anyone who doesn't understand and who doesn't want to. However, you are away there are other points of view don't you? Also, it might be an excellent idea would be if you stopped reading her ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: There's a person who claims others are abusing her

Posted: 25 Jul 2020, 8:12 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 410


Wow, I feel sorry for you. 8O. I don't know where you learned how to be cold and dismissive towards other people who you don't know. Whoever taught you those values is wrong. First, just be careful about making assumptions about a person as you don't know what is really going on. Maybe that person d...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Victims of narcissistic abusers?

Posted: 23 Jul 2020, 11:36 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 296


I was friends with a narcissist and his wife (who I now know is a flying monkey) for two-and-a-half years while I attended a house of worship that was not a suitable fit for me. It was when I would carpool with them I only noticed the red flags. - I am an open book and I would tell them about things...
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