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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: Today, 2:42 am 

Replies: 69
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kraftiekortie wrote:
At least you can support yourself….that’s very important.

Glad you got the job!

Thanks

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 8:27 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Weight issues seem very common in people with autism. It's just one of the factors that hold a lot of autistics back with dating. Poor employment is another and overall lack of competence as a typical adult is a third. I think these problems are the for the most part possible for an autistic to all...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 7:47 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


But looks still matter. I also noticed there seems to be considerably more unhappy and ever -frustrated obese people than good looking people. Seriously, why stack the odds against you when you're autisitc by treating your body like crap in addition to having poor social skills? I see it happen all...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to find a partner that doesn't want kids?

Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 8:47 am 

Replies: 27
Views: 788


I want someone to put me in a nursing home when I'm old. I wouldn't want to die alone at home and then be found years later as a mummified skeleton. Careful what you wish for. Aged care tends to be a pretty low-paid job, so it has a tendency to attract some people who don't care about doing a good ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 4:31 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 2,808


If I was flushed with opportunities outside of work then I'd take those instead, but that's not my reality. Your new career has likely improved your overall social status at least a little bit, hence might improve your prospects outside of work, at least so some extent. Yes, that's true, but only i...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 4:37 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Not directly, but I have read the whole thread and comments and seems in no uncertain terms it comes down to a lot of guys just won't accept any women in their league rather than threre being an entire lack of datable women. Can you cite a quote or quotes from this thread to substantiate your asser...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 12:21 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Appearance can factor into dating success very heavily, but so can a lot of other things, like opportunities to meet the right kind of people, and how outgoing and willing to risk rejection someone is. An overweight, below-average looking charismatic extroverted guy is probably going to end up havin...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 6:19 pm 

Replies: 69
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Your new job might improve your luck on dating apps too, at least a little bit. In any case, it's great to hear that you got that job! Thanks! Yes, a casino job will give you lots and lots of opportunities to meet people. But be careful. Does the casino have a code of conduct regarding social inter...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 6:42 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Good point. I hope it didn't sound like I'm unsympathetic. It's just that some men on here laugh when I say "personality" or "sense of humour". These are often the same men who lack both, but insist that going to the gym will help. No, you don't come across as unsympathetic at a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 2:13 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 2,808


Your new job might improve your luck on dating apps too, at least a little bit. In any case, it's great to hear that you got that job! Thanks! Yes, a casino job will give you lots and lots of opportunities to meet people. But be careful. Does the casino have a code of conduct regarding social inter...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 1:51 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Good point. I hope it didn't sound like I'm unsympathetic. It's just that some men on here laugh when I say "personality" or "sense of humour". These are often the same men who lack both, but insist that going to the gym will help. No, you don't come across as unsympathetic at a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 23 Jan 2023, 9:20 pm 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


We've been saying it for years. Most men just don't believe us. Not to belittle men's struggles, but it's true. Saying what, that looks are necessary? That personality is necessary. ^ Lots of autistic men seem to worry about looks, jobs, money, etc., because they feel inferior in the dating market....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 23 Jan 2023, 6:29 pm 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Agreed that Zakatar shouldn't be looking in "bars and other vanity fairs." But, to be fair, Zakatar is talking about the situation of "average-looking, average-earning" autistic men, not "average-looking, average-earning" NT men, and he's talking specifically about the...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man

Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 5:00 am 

Replies: 364
Views: 6,168


Date a range of people. Don't use someone you're not really attracted to though, that's also icky. I find this one difficult because we have natural attractions programmed into us AND we can find non-stereotypically attractive people attractive, but where is the line? If you feel like you're using ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 12:48 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 2,808


This. You can act like the grown-ass man you are, take a look at yourself in the mirror, ask yourself why aren't women attracted to me, and then improve yourself. You are only 26 for goodness sake. You have plenty of time to improve yourself. If nothing else, get therapy. You can be very depressed ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 19 Jan 2023, 11:52 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 2,808


I wrote earlier: As I see it, you are caught in a vicious circle. Being so "in love with love" makes it harder to do the things that would actually increase your likelihood of finding a romantic relationship. In order to have any reasonable chance of finding a romantic relationship , you ...
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