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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Porn addiction? |
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,202
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| Porn addiction is one of the nastiest addictions. It's the only one that's truly deep rooted in the human psyche. Sexual gratification always has that niggling impulse even in people who are still virgins and haven't had any sexual gratification to develop an addiction with. Might be worth watching ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How do you think slavery arose? |
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Posted: Yesterday, 12:02 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 1,422
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| tell that to the psychopaths who enslave people today. Slavery is and should still be a thing in modern society. It has a legitimate purpose. I just mentioned that it comes in the form of punishment for crime but I also think it should extend to people of low to no financial means who have maliciou... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How do you think slavery arose? |
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:57 am
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Replies: 58
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| It arose by selfishness primarily. That being said, it's hard to tell when it arose as the circumstances that started it are impossible to decipher. I think primarily abusive people had slaves but simultaneously slaves might have been owned by people indebted or wrong by the "slaves". Slav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 6:56 am
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Replies: 390
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| Lol. Most vain posts of the year goes to you and it's only early February. Deflect deflect, snappy comeback, yadda yadda... I just noticed, most of the insults you keep hurling are simply the things that I've talked about - sexism, vanity, seeking attention, those were things I brought up earlier, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 6:34 am
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Replies: 390
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| and then get offended when I say what I look like :? Where exactly did I do this? I don't have social skills, and I'm not very self-aware, so I don't know. Please help me understand. Also, just like you say you wouldn't expect something that you couldn't deliver on, cos you're not a hypocrite - tha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 5:41 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,949
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| and then get offended when I say what I look like :? Where exactly did I do this? I don't have social skills, and I'm not very self-aware, so I don't know. Please help me understand. Also, just like you say you wouldn't expect something that you couldn't deliver on, cos you're not a hypocrite - tha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 5:02 am
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Replies: 390
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You ask several questions about what I look like in a single paragraph and then get offended when I say what I look like 
Hmmm OK, weird logic. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 4:42 am
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Replies: 390
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| . Yeah, he's been saying this entire time that autisitcs can socialise their way out of autism and only then are they worthy of dating. Not only that but social skills are apparently all that matter too. Nothing else. I guess I can become a crack addict or something then. Unemployed? A drunkard, a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 4:41 am
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Replies: 390
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uncommondenominator wrote: Nades wrote: Your lack of self awareness is dreadful Just blame it on my autism. It's a social disability. That's a FACT. Right?.
Ummmm. Yes it is. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 4:19 am
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Replies: 390
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| Argue, excuse, deflect, project. Got it. Wow, you're being so obnoxious. You're insulting every single guy on this thread. I've never seen such a large ego stroking post on WP before too. Your lack of self awareness is dreadful considering everything else you've said here and how critical you are o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 2:29 am
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Replies: 390
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| That means you can't try? You won't know how far you can improve unless you do it. But why go to all that work when you can just make another excuse. Besides, I'm not sure that's as true as you'd like it to be, as a defense. But again, it makes a handy excuse. I think it's good to determine, as exa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 2:19 am
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| To uncommondenominator: See also my post here , on the previous page. But I do agree with most of the following: I still can't help but feel that some of our problems are less related to an "inability" to learn social skills, and more related to some of the maladaptive behaviors we've pic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 2:01 am
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Replies: 390
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| Even I've rejected her because holding hands with her in the street would be bad enough, yet alone having to look after her. Such a charmer! I bet you say that to all the girls...! :heart: *swoon!* :heart: How svelt must the lady be to be worthy of the gentleman's time and attention? Are you yourse... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 1:56 am
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Replies: 390
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| Furthermore, it occurs to me - are we not, those of us here in this thread, this forum, socializing? Holding conversations, expressing ideas, etc. Not only that, but there's a group of us. That means we're engaging in group socialization. We're each talking to multiple people. We're talking among o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Autistic women in abusive relationships! |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2023, 10:51 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 522
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| Abuse seems to be more common among autistic women compared to NT women. I think it's due to them being more likely to be dependant on partners and having a harder time recognising warning signs. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: you say theres no severity levels with autism but |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2023, 8:12 am
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Replies: 46
Views: 955
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| i feel there is levels of severity across the autism spectrum because im 50 but still havent/cant learn new many social skills but many autistics half my age understand more social things than me and im exposed to social interaction every day at work with the public but i still cant seem to learn s... |
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