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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Framework for Care of Upset Person

Posted: Today, 11:39 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 57

Quite often posters here seek to council others but seem too focused on offering solutions and miss the more important part of offering comfort. Definitely guilty, but to be fair, people often say when it comes to these things "do what you'd want them to do if your roles were switched" an...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: Aspie and Christianity

 Post subject: Re: Aspie and Christianity
Posted: Today, 11:18 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 231

By the way, if you are going to present arguments how religion is irrational or how its irrational to refuse vaccines, this wouldn't answer my question. My question is NOT "why some people are atheists and vaccinate" rather my question IS "why is being an atheist and choosing to vacc...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What are the best countries for healthcare?

Posted: Yesterday, 8:33 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 299

Rossall wrote:
The UK is pretty good. We have the tax funded NHS.

Is that for foregeiners too, though?

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Is it a reasonable request to ask for someone’s iq?

Posted: 18 Oct 2021, 6:20 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 503

For some jobs, I don't see why not, though the IQ itself wouldn't prove that the person can handle a particular job. Even if someone has a very high IQ, if they have no experience or the exact education for a particular job, they might do worse in it than someone with an average IQ but who has exper...

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Post a book you're reading

Posted: 17 Oct 2021, 8:26 am 

Replies: 4,309
Views: 317,708

The Testaments by Margaret Atwood

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Why is the narrative always..when you have children....

Posted: 14 Oct 2021, 9:47 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 336

I think the reason's cultural and historical; for centuries, and still in some cultures, most women were forced in to the role of a mother and a housekeeper and only that. While women now have other options too in civilized cultures, a woman having other choices is such a new thing in those too that...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: USA should legalize prostitution

Posted: 13 Oct 2021, 10:42 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 720

Not an expert on the subject, but it's legal where I'm from as long as they register as some kind of business and pay their taxes properly... I think. Unless it's changed somehow recently or something. I've read some articles about it, but the last one was several years ago. Anyway, I don't see a mo...

 Forum: Art, Writing, and Music   Topic: Post a book you're reading

Posted: 12 Oct 2021, 10:04 am 

Replies: 4,309
Views: 317,708

Maailmanlopun kahvila by Nelli Hietala

Literal translation of the title: The Cafe of the End of the World

I feel like I can empathize with the main character's life situation, but she's kinda bitchy.

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate?

Posted: 11 Oct 2021, 12:58 pm 

Replies: 15,188
Views: 622,998

Some kind of wrapped chocolate candy... bought a box to celebrate Christmas chocolates coming to the stores. Of course, it's a bit too early for Christmas preparations, but chocolate doesn't count! Wasn't all that good though, so I won't be buying this kind anymore.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Not all autistic people have a large head?

Posted: 11 Oct 2021, 5:30 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 425

I haven't noticed autistic people specifically having large heads, and I've met a lot IRL. I'm an exception to that though as my head swelled as a baby due to pressure in the brain, but even my head's not noticeably bigger than most anymore.

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Autism Women and Sexiness

Posted: 10 Oct 2021, 6:50 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 452

Since the pressure's the problem (among other things?), that does make appearing sexy harder since tight fitting clothes that don't leave much to imagination when it comes to shapes has a big role in what's considered sexy. Have you gone to any lingerie shops for advice? Maybe they'd have some model...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: "Couldn't your wife take the leave?"

Posted: 10 Oct 2021, 6:33 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 338

@Fireblossom He does part of the housework. Groceries and cooking are his regular responsibilities and possibly much cleaning - we both hate it so we share. And he's the one struggling with construction workers in the new apartment, which is quite a load right now. He lacks skills to work with the ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Having a limited wardrobe

Posted: 10 Oct 2021, 5:52 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 500

Well, yes and no. My closet has a lots of clothes that I think I might end up wearing more at some point, so I don't throw them away, but I mostly wear the same four or five outfits on a regular basis. Of course, since during summer it can be, and often is these days, 30 degrees and then even -20 de...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: "Couldn't your wife take the leave?"

Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 9:06 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 338

Oh boy, this is a subject I could go on and on about, and I don't even have kids... well, guess the subject I'd be going on about would be more like gender inequality in general. Your situation is a very common one, unfortunately. While men often work more paid hours in whatever company they work fo...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate?

Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 8:10 am 

Replies: 15,188
Views: 622,998

Some self made wheat bread. I slept poorly and had trouble concentrating on things in the late morning, so I thought I'd bake something instead of opening my computer, but I was not in the mood to go grocery shopping, so baking anything sweet was out of the question. In the end, bread was all I had ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My sister doesn't want me to use aspergers as a shield

Posted: 07 Oct 2021, 12:42 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 502

Asperger shouldn't be used as an excuse (or a shield) to not try to learn things, as in one shouldn't say "there's no point in trying, I have asperger so I can't learn X", but it's a fact that it makes some things harder for us to learn than for NTs, so I think that that should be taken in...
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