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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why can't fat women on dating sites grasp the fact

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 8:30 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,000


Seems like you glossed over the part where you can make subtle hints which aren't offensive. You can ask for someone who isn't stupid by saying you'd ideally want someone to discuss [insert intellectual topic here] with. Same as you can avoid an unhealthy date by asking for someone who likes to do ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Men should advertise lack of social skill in dating profiles

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 8:21 am 

Replies: 90
Views: 3,280


I grew up in an environment where a lack of social skills -- or perceived* lack of -- was an absolute killer if you were a guy. Girls/women wouldn't touch you with a barge pole, and you'd find them more likely talking to the ducks at the local feeding pond than to you. (* unattractive / no friends /...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why can't fat women on dating sites grasp the fact

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 8:09 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,000


I'll stop the snarky comments for a sec and chime in here. When a person writes a dating profile and writes about their self they are doing exactly that. Unless they states so in their profile it is unreasonable to assume someone wants to date their doppelganger. Someone could be thin but like curv...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why can't fat women on dating sites grasp the fact

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 7:45 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,000


This thread busts 2 myths: -Any woman can get a date on a dating site. -Working out gets you laid. My build is like this. I'm not some ripped Adonis with 9% bodyfat, far from it. But I'm not fat. http://www.teenidols2000.com/sti/athletes/soccer/rooney_wayne/rooney_wayne_s11.jpg

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why can't fat women on dating sites grasp the fact

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 7:40 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,000


Why can’t men grasp this isn’t a fact. It is a fact for many, many men. I only get messages from fats and I'm pretty damn tired of it. These women are enormous and it clearly says in my profile I look after my weight. Why can't they take that as a hint? It must of been years since a healthy woman c...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why can't fat women on dating sites grasp the fact

Posted: 09 Nov 2017, 6:38 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 1,000


I strength train 3x per week, have a good diet, plus I do a lot of walking (as well as the odd venture on my mountain bike at weekends depending on weather). I put this on my dating profile to be seen and read. One common trend I notice among the fat women is they don't seem to grasp that you NEED t...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why do you still use dating sites?

Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 10:25 am 

Replies: 27
Views: 1,247


Why do I use online dating sites? - Because I don't have friends to go out with in my civilian life, only acquaintances who never ask me to socialize with them. That's not my fault. I was bullied at college and university for my appearance so failed to make strong bonds. I'm also 40, so past that ag...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why are men insecure about this?

Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 10:07 am 

Replies: 48
Views: 3,184


I think if your a more feminine-looking man or less robust in the skull, and kinda skinny built, balding doesn't sit as well. When we see a more feminine or less robust balding man It reminds us of terminal illnesses like cancers. Have you noticed that bald men often touted as "sexy" are v...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Online dating is pointless as a guy

Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 7:39 am 

Replies: 378
Views: 13,530


The modern social medial landscape is hell for average and below-average looking guys and a godsend for good looking 7+/10 guys. Every single woman now has an army of men well above her in looks waiting to court her, just a few clicks away. - Obese women that are disability claimants can get healthy...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Rejection

 Post subject: Re: Rejection
Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 9:59 am 

Replies: 56
Views: 2,607


Maybe he comes across as uninteresting. The world is not divided into ugly and non ugly looking people. Most of the time he’s probably average looking and seems boring so she pushes next. Like I said, a faceless aspie man who I have a love/hate friendship with can make people obsessed with him with...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Rejection

 Post subject: Re: Rejection
Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 9:19 am 

Replies: 56
Views: 2,607


If a man is repeatedly ghosted it means he's ugly. Ghosting means a female has shown zero enthusiasm to get to know you at all. All your other traits mean nothing, even if you know she's got shared interests. And for men that aren't too fat, too skinny, or not poor, it's hard to understand why women...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Males: do you consider yourself physically attractive?

Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 8:55 am 

Replies: 281
Views: 34,681


Depending on where you live and your age, 20% body fat is probably above average nowadays... Then again I guess 20% isn't good enough these days. Especially in Australia a lot of middle aged men and women are overweight or obese and usually at least 25% or more. If you were 20 years younger then su...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Being called "cute" by women when you're a grown man - bad?

Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 8:41 am 

Replies: 36
Views: 2,105


If you call a man cute it means there is something about him that appeals to you. Being handsome doesn't make a man appealing on its own, but sometimes handsome men think being handsome makes them irresistible, but there are other words for them. I always thought women considered guys like Elijah W...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Rejection

 Post subject: Re: Rejection
Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 8:23 am 

Replies: 56
Views: 2,607


Some asinine reasons I've been rejected: - looking younger than my actual age - not having a beard / facial hair - not being 6 foot tall, (apparently 5'9 > 5'10 was "too short") - not having the right hairstyle - liking Radiohead and old-fashioned prog-rock and not pop or club music like M...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Males: do you consider yourself physically attractive?

Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 7:16 am 

Replies: 281
Views: 34,681


I think if I get down from my current 19 - 20% (174lbs) bodyfat to 14-15% (165lbs) I'll look better and should feel better about myself. I don't have a strong jawline or chin so the excess fat that accumulates on our faces looks worse on me than say a strong-jawed fella like Burt Lancaster or Pat Ti...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Being called "cute" by women when you're a grown man - bad?

Posted: 04 Nov 2017, 6:56 am 

Replies: 36
Views: 2,105


amykitten wrote:
I dislike handsome\sexy guys and attracted to cute guys. So from me its a compliment



So what's the difference between cute and handsome/sexy?

Cute means less robust or less Adonis/action-hero looking?
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