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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 30 Jul 2021, 3:40 am 

Replies: 9
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So far before the big fear event which really affected him, I have had thoughts, sometimes when he'd say he would do some things, in the background i found myself unable to believe them and thinking about the possibility it would end but i didnt treat it as something that real, didnt put much mind t...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 30 Jul 2021, 3:33 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 124


I think it would be good for her to work through exactly why she fears abandonment. Whether posting here or talking out/ journaling about why it's so fearful can really help find the underlying issue. That goes a long way to finding ways to feel better. I have been through all sorts of relationship...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 30 Jul 2021, 3:01 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 124


Pepe wrote:
I have said I will always be your friend if you want me to be, and I mean it. ;)

I'm gonna ignore this but please DON'T POST here again. i wish i didnt have to mention exes OR people i have been intimate with in the past, but it includes you, Pepe.. Don't post again.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 29 Jul 2021, 9:26 pm 

Replies: 9
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Talking about them with my s/o doesn't help me believe them less, feel better, and it bothers him a lot to hear it, and it is a real threat to our relationship and our future if it comes out. These feelings wont go away as far as I was told by my psychologist, I will have to deal with them and what ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Re: Fears taking over
Posted: 29 Jul 2021, 9:17 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 124


Exes not allowed to comment, breakup suggestions not allowed, we are atheists so be mindful of wishes, optimistic encouragements and support welcome. I'll be going to bed but when i wake up I expect an episode of fears to be around, wake ups tend to be the hardest especially after serious discussion...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Fears taking over

 Post subject: Fears taking over
Posted: 29 Jul 2021, 8:57 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 124


This thread is to help with my fear and anxiety and prevent it from putting strain on the relationship. My boyfriend who goes by the screen name "r00tb33r" will post about our issue next. :heart:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 2:51 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


Quite frankly he is one in 7 billion, in the sense such a person is likely impossible to find. He's very mature and understanding and brilliant, and productive and successful despite his inexperience and successful despite his downsides. He's the dream of any woman, and especially me. He's so much m...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 2:14 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


I already told him these things, to stop when he talks as if Im going to move in with him and I felt like there was no way I could handle it alone, he wouldn't stop and I didn't know why, and there are some things that make me doubt his whole personna and his goals, and his feelings. It's very hard...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 2:08 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


Does this chap have kids? an ex partner? if so that's another thing you'll have to consider taking on, being a step mum and him having his ex in his life because of the kids? sounds like unless you'll eventually move in with him, this relationship isn't going to happen and it sounds like Rexi you'l...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 1:41 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


It seems to me that you two have communication issues. That could be not saying things openly enough, or it could be not listening enough. Or both. If there's something bothering you it needs to be clearly expressed, and understood. And then either you can work it out, or you can't. I almost get th...

 Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation   Topic: Desperation, Science, Charlatans and Alternative Treatments

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 3:53 am 

Replies: 81
Views: 14,616


Homeopathic treatment claims to ‘cure’ autism in NZ A homeopathic treatment regime invented to ‘cure’ autism is in use in New Zealand. Complete Elimination of Autistic Spectrum Expression, or CEASE therapy as it is known, has drawn international condemnation and the United Kingdom advertising watch...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Majority of people find partners through mutual friends?

Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 2:01 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 480


We have to smile, like this https://www.autismforums.com/media/554.13751/full?d=1595110216 And start talking to them in an ant voice, about things we might bond over. Like dogs! And then swiftly ask for their contact details before they have a chance to run. Unless they're already pretending their d...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 25 Apr 2021, 3:59 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


He said who knows what happens that i might get pregnant. Which I really don't want to and will try very hard not to, and he agreed to help me prevent it. Relying on that option is very strange to me especially since I have deep fears about pregnancy. And trusting him to prevent it when he's rootin...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 25 Apr 2021, 12:55 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


Well there's also tubal ligation I think Romania is extreme when it comes to expectations of having children. I get asked by everyone when in going to have children and get married and get made fun of by neighbors and children for not being married. The common understanding of life's purpose is to ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 25 Apr 2021, 12:54 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


He said who knows what happens that i might get pregnant. Which I really don't want to and will try very hard not to, and he agreed to help me prevent it. Relying on that option is very strange to me especially since I have deep fears about pregnancy. And trusting him to prevent it when he's rootin...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty with decisions

Posted: 25 Apr 2021, 11:47 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,211


He said who knows what happens that i might get pregnant. Which I really don't want to and will try very hard not to, and he agreed to help me prevent it. Relying on that option is very strange to me especially since I have deep fears about pregnancy. And trusting him to prevent it when he's rootin...
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