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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 1:05 pm 

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"Putting myself first is a skill that took me decades to learn, because my family constantly told me I'm worthless and should put myself last. Also, feminism guarantees my wife's happiness at the expense of mine, so I refuse to go along with it." This situation puts me in extreme difficul...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 12:37 pm 

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"she didn't like museums, artsy neighborhoods, quirky restaurants, or other outings, although she did go to an on-campus dance with me. " The creepiness of this is that when I'm hyperfocused on my fiance I'm exactly like that. Not only am I hard to take to those places but if he asks me ho...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 12:30 pm 

Replies: 1,169
Views: 27,461


"Putting myself first is a skill that took me decades to learn, because my family constantly told me I'm worthless and should put myself last. Also, feminism guarantees my wife's happiness at the expense of mine, so I refuse to go along with it." This situation puts me in extreme difficult...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 12:16 pm 

Replies: 1,169
Views: 27,461


Even if that were universally true, which it isn't and which is why counselling exists, because the issues you talk about need helped and can be helped, it sounds a little selfish that one would want to be the happy one. In general this pattern is easy to fall into, each to satisfy their needs and ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 12:12 pm 

Replies: 1,169
Views: 27,461


Thats really unhealthy. There are things that happen beyond the "apparent" peacefulness. She shuts down in that moment, she doesn't respect him. It's the same thing as when people use shock collars on dogs. They shut down and behave but it creates disbalance daily. As opposed to when you ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 12:01 pm 

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Views: 27,461


Usually, it’s the man who has to sleep on the couch :) I never heard of a man forcing a woman to sleep on the couch after an argument. Damn I thought this a dead thread. From 7 oct to 9 oct, means 2 days. Not long enough. Still prolly has 8 lives to go. The more the owner and admin threaten to clos...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 11:42 am 

Replies: 1,169
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Usually, it’s the man who has to sleep on the couch :) I never heard of a man forcing a woman to sleep on the couch after an argument. Damn I thought this a dead thread. From 7 oct to 9 oct, means 2 days. Not long enough. Still prolly has 8 lives to go. The more the owner and admin threaten to clos...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 11:15 am 

Replies: 1,169
Views: 27,461


Thats really unhealthy. There are things that happen beyond the "apparent" peacefulness. She shuts down in that moment, she doesn't respect him. It's the same thing as when people use shock collars on dogs. They shut down and behave but it creates disbalance daily. As opposed to when you ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 10:55 am 

Replies: 1,169
Views: 27,461


An additional allegory is when an unhealthy dog forces and bullies the other pack animals into submission as opposed to when submission is being offered to the dog for being balanced enough for the pack to team up and agree to follow him. Humans may follow unstable pack leaders, but animals never do...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 10:26 am 

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I've read some psychology about the couch thing. A man or a woman who's unwilling to sleep on the couch after he/she's made a mistake is likely unready and unwilling to accept rules, boundaries and limitations and the process of healing, mind, space and recovery of the one who has been harmed and w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 10:22 am 

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Also understand the difference between an incel and a volcel. A volcel is short for "voluntarily celibate." These are the people who are virgins by choice. Someone can be a volcel because they're not interested in sex or their religious beliefs discourages them from being in a sexual rela...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: More Thought on Incels.

 Post subject: Re: More Thought on Incels.
Posted: 09 Oct 2021, 9:43 am 

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I get free sex every night so I'm good. 8) Many men who see escorts are married. But that's beside the point. NOTHING in life in free. First off, living with a wife as an adult is like living with your parents as a child: you must obey her rules/wishes or face consequences; you are NOT a free man. ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should I try to date 'bad girls' in this sense?

Posted: 07 Oct 2021, 9:01 am 

Replies: 131
Views: 7,034


So I've been thinking, the emotional and mental side seems to affect how passionate she is so one way to get a fuller experience may be to expose her to more positive and emotionally strong events, maybe something unexpected, surprise her in a very meaningful way or spend the day of her dreams with ...

 Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions   Topic: Depression, Anxiety, Hopelessness?

Posted: 07 Oct 2021, 8:56 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 703


browneyedgirlslowingdown wrote:
I quit the next day, started another job a week later, and added another job last week. Thanks for the words and support. I have been in and out of depression ever since, but I'm ok.

That's good to hear. Seems like a lot of changes and keep strong and trying to find your path. Good luck!

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should autists get married through 'trickery'?

Posted: 05 Oct 2021, 12:44 pm 

Replies: 52
Views: 1,842


Essentially, if autists make bad partners, and getting married requires misleading the other person, for them to eventually realize they feel lonely and unfulfilled with you.. is getting married worth it? I plan on getting married.I feel like i have no other choice to marry to fulfil certain things...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should autists get married through 'trickery'?

Posted: 05 Oct 2021, 12:20 pm 

Replies: 52
Views: 1,842


And what if your 13 year old starts declaring to be atheist and hate your church? You seem to treat your potential spouse very instrumentally. I would get my family bishop and preacher at the church involved to try to help us with a Bible study and shepherding help to know what to do.I think my kid...
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