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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What do you do if you can't find love?

Posted: 03 Jan 2023, 12:40 am 

Replies: 23
Views: 1,805

You learn to be enough for yourself. Looking for love with there people is flawed from the get go; people are unreliable and feelings are fleeting.

...also get yourself a pet.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: High pitched and/or "sing songy" voice

Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 12:27 am 

Replies: 31
Views: 1,274

I have typically had a lower voice. It did get a little higher when I had my tonsils out lol I'm not singsongy now, but I was sometimes as a kid. It wasn't intentional either. I would only mean to speak and it would come out like that o_O What I do think is an extension of that: If I reiterate what ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Being worthy of love

 Post subject: Re: Being worthy of love
Posted: 12 Sep 2022, 1:37 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 457

Everyone is worthy of love. Being ready for it/a relationship is another thing. My answer is like what the guy above me suggests. I worked on myself. Worked to identify what my assets are, and what I like/value about myself. I identified my faults and thoughts of ways to either correct them or to ac...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: My mother having a low opinion of men!

Posted: 08 Sep 2022, 12:54 am 

Replies: 85
Views: 1,630

I have been on holiday recently down the south coast of England with my parents. My mother always makes comments on how fabulous the ladies look down where we are but never comments on the men. I asked my mother today why she never comments on guys looks and she said to me “I not going to make a co...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What words have people used to describe you?

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 1:44 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,874

Uhh Dork, stupid, ugly, beautiful, b*tch, apathetic, cold, pure evil, intimidating, a kindred spirit, intelligent, heartless, sweet, witty, sweet & tangy, gorgeous, sexy, annoying, dark but prissy, scary/terrifying, crazy, dumb, different , different, quiet, random, shy, wise, insightful, calm, ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: How is your relationship with your father?

Posted: 12 May 2022, 2:26 am 

Replies: 39
Views: 1,423

There is none, he's long been dead.

My relationship with his memory is complicated.

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Pet psychology

 Post subject: Re: Pet psychology
Posted: 21 Mar 2022, 2:09 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 4,574

I have zero confidence in anyone's ability to change that cat's behavior if the person keeps hitting it. And the person isn't going to stop. I apologize for thinking that way. As I said, getting the cat to live outdoors might be a humane option. If there is a medical issue(for instance) happening t...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: How old is your oldest memory?

Posted: 18 Mar 2022, 11:58 pm 

Replies: 38
Views: 2,843

I actually asked my mother not that long ago about a few things I ''remembered" not that long ago. I wasn't sure if they were memories or something I dreamed up. Apparently they were memories from when was around 2 years old.

So I guess my oldest memories are from when I was 2

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: letter from SSA about an appointment to 'review my case' :(

Posted: 10 Feb 2022, 9:01 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 2,821

For SSI/SSDI for life, you have to do a review every 3-4 years. I just had another last year. I am on SSDI so I don't know if procedures are a little different but from state it might vary a little. They just send me paperwork to do in the mail and then I have to send it back. There is a time frame ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: IEP, I'm going to war

 Post subject: Re: IEP, I'm going to war
Posted: 02 Feb 2022, 9:28 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,046

So I saw this thread and thought "IEP - school - going to war; that sounds accurate" Heh Typically when trying to get an IEP a couple things are helpful. A evaluation is typically done, someone just has to do various tests and stuff. And if you can get various professionals there to help b...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Competing against taller guys?

Posted: 05 Jan 2022, 9:45 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 1,644

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Depends which guy is a bigger jerk. If either.


If they are carbon copies of each other, flip a coin. Whether I'm looking him in the face or looking up doesn't matter much

Superficial women would prefer the taller one probably. But why should anyone care what they think?

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What is your Aspie Quiz score

Posted: 30 Dec 2021, 11:31 pm 

Replies: 1,019
Views: 160,229

Ah I've taken this before Current/2021: Your broader autism cluster (Aspie) score: 120 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 83 of 200 You are very likely on the broader autism cluster (Aspie) In 2015: Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 131 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 92 of...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Pet psychology

 Post subject: Re: Pet psychology
Posted: 26 Dec 2021, 11:50 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 4,574

If a cat that previously used a litter box has started not to, then this is a behavioral reaction to something. It's a big ole "Hey, something is wrong!!" Hitting a cat to stop a behavior is never a good idea, nor is it going to do any good. It will be more likely to aggravate the situatio...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Personality or Looks?

 Post subject: Re: Personality or Looks?
Posted: 24 Dec 2021, 10:46 pm 

Replies: 52
Views: 3,602

In terms of a romantic partner, I want it all obviously. Not one or the other. Personality has a stronger edge simply because physical beauty fades. Then I'd be stuck with some boring raisin. What women want 1. Money 2. status What men want 1. looks Whats personality got to do with it? I have my own...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Do therapists treat you better if you're successful in life?

Posted: 24 Dec 2021, 10:24 pm 

Replies: 53
Views: 4,248

First of all I'm kind of shocked. But I am actually really glad that you seem to have found someone that is is suitable for you. With any luck maybe you can start to let go of the negative/painful experience you had previously. As per your question: like in anything, you may find individuals that mi...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Virgins.

 Post subject: Re: Virgins.
Posted: 21 Dec 2021, 11:59 pm 

Replies: 117
Views: 9,406

So if I was a 30 year old virgin, or hell even older and the guy I was dating spat out the kind of attitude, that the OP did, I'd be shutting the door on his face.

Better be true and respectful to myself and die a virgin than deal with that bs IMO
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