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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Autistic women in abusive relationships! |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: Yesterday, 4:20 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 511
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| Apparently although autistic women have an easier time getting dates many are actually in abusive relationships with the wrong partner. Even if someone has an "easier" time getting dates, that doesn't mean they have an "easier" time finding good people. Even if someone would hav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 7:15 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Lol. Most vain posts of the year goes to you and it's only early February. Deflect deflect, snappy comeback, yadda yadda... I just noticed, most of the insults you keep hurling are simply the things that I've talked about - sexism, vanity, seeking attention, those were things I brought up earlier, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 6:36 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Lol. Most vain posts of the year goes to you and it's only early February. Deflect deflect, snappy comeback, yadda yadda... I just noticed, most of the insults you keep hurling are simply the things that I've talked about - sexism, vanity, seeking attention, those were things I brought up earlier, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 6:27 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| and then get offended when I say what I look like :? Where exactly did I do this? I don't have social skills, and I'm not very self-aware, so I don't know. Please help me understand. Also, just like you say you wouldn't expect something that you couldn't deliver on, cos you're not a hypocrite - tha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 5:22 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| and then get offended when I say what I look like :? Where exactly did I do this? I don't have social skills, and I'm not very self-aware, so I don't know. Please help me understand. Also, If I seek standards in a woman, then I've already met them myself. I'm no hypocrite when it comes to standards... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 5:02 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Your lack of self awareness is dreadful Just blame it on my autism. It's a social disability. That's a FACT. Right?. Ummmm. Yes it is. Then why are you ever so surprised at my behavior? I'm autistic! I can't have social skills! Remember? But thank you for insulting me for having the audacity of bei... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 4:31 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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Nades wrote: Your lack of self awareness is dreadful
Just blame it on my autism. It's a social disability. That's a FACT. Right?
Dance around, avoid avoid, excuse excuse, exaggerate, whine...
Mansplaining? Lol c'mon now...  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2023, 3:53 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Argue, excuse, deflect, project. Got it. I'm trying to flex for the ladies, says MR MUSCLES! "Oh yes mona, you always were my FAVORITE!" says the guy claiming I'm trying to win people over. Could you be any more obvious. Dramatically scoffing in hyperbole may make you feel cool, but nobody... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2023, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| That means you can't try? You won't know how far you can improve unless you do it. But why go to all that work when you can just make another excuse. Besides, I'm not sure that's as true as you'd like it to be, as a defense. But again, it makes a handy excuse. I think it's good to determine, as exa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2023, 4:54 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Thank you, Isabella and Where_am_I. It is appreciated. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2023, 3:37 am
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Replies: 390
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| It's a wee bit ironic, yet again, the way you're accusing me of shoving words into people's mouths, as you unilaterally declare that I must not like you for being an autistic man, that I wouldn't be this way if you were a woman, or that I wouldn't be this way if you were NT. I too am an autistic ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2023, 3:15 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| It's a wee bit ironic, yet again, the way you're accusing me of shoving words into people's mouths, as you unilaterally declare that I must not like you for being an autistic man, that I wouldn't be this way if you were a woman, or that I wouldn't be this way if you were NT. I too am an autistic man... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 8:40 pm
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| The issue I have is you seemed to have appeared on here and immediately made a snide jab to all the males on this thread belittling them for coming up with suggestions like working out (which makes people better looking obviously and gives them a hobby) while also telling them to improve their soci... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 9:39 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| You need poor communication skills to be diagnosed with autism, it's that simple. Even if that were 100% true, despite likely being more common than not, that still doesn't preclude the possibility that said social skills can in fact be improved with overt intentional action on the part of the indi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 8:32 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| [ I'm sorry for not assuming all autistics will always have sub-par social skills? :scratch: Are we including you in this assumption? Or not? How terrible of me for assuming people have potential. Bad Llama! For Christ sake, we have autism. Being socially inept is part of the diagnosis for autism. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
| uncommondenominator |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 8:09 am
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Replies: 390
Views: 6,948
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| Autisitcs are severely limited with how much they can improve their social skills.......... That means you can't try? You won't know how far you can improve unless you do it. But why go to all that work when you can just make another excuse. Besides, I'm not sure that's as true as you'd like it to ... |
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