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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 2:55 pm 

Replies: 17
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Oh yes I agree she seems to be NPD. I was just wondering if Narc's can also have depression when something doesn't go as planned. Either way she's a hot mess and I'm sorry you've had such little support. :( She is and even though I kind of handled her in my teens and twenties, then I got my own lif...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 2:44 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 322


ThisTimelessMoment wrote:
KitLily your storie is certainly ringing all of my narcissist warning bells! I'm sorry you've had to deal with this.


Yes. When someone told me to look up the definition of a narcissist, I ticked off most of the traits! It was like reading about my mother on a list :lol:

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'?

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 2:40 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 960


Eh, I think I'll give up. Friendship is too complicated for me. I'm going to stay as the cat that walked on her own.

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Prince Harry says William attacked him during row

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 2:39 pm 

Replies: 112
Views: 3,031


We fortunately have one of the best and unbiased government broadcasters in the world in the Australian broadcasting commission. The ABC's journalists have regularly won awards for outstanding journalism. Good, well done! Make sure you fight to keep it that way and don't descend into apathy like th...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'?

Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 2:21 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 960


I assumed pregnancy and motherhood would mean that I'd make good friends as we moved through the challenges together. Didn't happen :roll: Problem is, pregnancy and motherhood are individual/family-oriented challenges, not group challenges (outside the family). So, they don't really lend themselves...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Post something that made you happy today.

Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 10:01 am 

Replies: 30,626
Views: 1,097,559


Yesterday, we took our daughter and 3 friends to a pizza restaurant for her birthday. They sat at one table together, we sat at another so we didn't cramp their style. Then they went shopping and we went shopping separately. She said she had a wonderful time catching up with her old school friends a...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: ibs flares

 Post subject: Re: ibs flares
Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 8:26 am 

Replies: 91
Views: 4,172


im glad people here are more relaxed about the fact that i break wind i was afraid some guys might say like no way your too beautiful to fart!or something daft like that sometimes i dont even mind having wind if im alone and not in too much discomfort i mean who cares if a bit of air keeps coming o...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 8:23 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 322


I've never thought my mother had depression. Until fairly recently she had a large group of friends, she was popular and got invited everywhere. She was always off doing something with them, holidays, parties, dinners, she was always full of energy. I was always just the dull, boring daughter who ta...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Prince Harry says William attacked him during row

Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 8:13 am 

Replies: 112
Views: 3,031


The BBC *used* to be left wing...but now it's in the pocket of the government. They have right wing people on every programme, they don't report the truth. They've really gone downhill. You are explaining it rationally The British right have, however, long waned the BBC is a bastion of socialism ht...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 3:10 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 322


People are so weird. I can't understand not being devoted to your own children and grandchildren. What's wrong with these people? My mother has always been wanting me to do more and more but when I do it, she has moved on e.g. she wanted me to get married and leave home. Eventually I did, but she wa...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Thoughts about friendship

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:59 pm 

Replies: 80
Views: 5,249


Really interesting thoughts about friendship :heart:

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'?

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:58 pm 

Replies: 27
Views: 960


I explained this here , a while back, and then recently added some further thoughts here . Feel free to reply to me in that thread, which I have revived. Briefly, her model involves only two of what I consider to be the four foundations of friendship, whereas I think a friendship needs to start wit...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:39 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 322


Sorry you're still dealing with this, KL. If it's a cognitive decline and not physical, she's likely got a lot of time left for you to visit. There's no rush unless the staff tell you so. My ex-MIL babysat once at 4 months, and said the baby was "a going concern" and "too much work&q...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My mother is starting to go downhill

Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:12 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 322


self care always first! Yes, I am only just learning that in my 50s! :) When I was young, my mother's needs and wants always came first. I always had to tiptoe round her and hope I wouldn't set her off in a tantrum. Of course whatever I did was wrong so she was always having tantrums and 'getting r...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

 Post subject: Re: Rants
Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:08 pm 

Replies: 8,309
Views: 540,402


Not only what I said before either. I pieced more together today. It all makes sense now. I'm really fcking angry about all of this. I mean I knew that my upbringing was sh*t to say the least but this is just off the fcking scale. I always felt like there was some kind of conspiracy surrounding me ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

 Post subject: Re: Rants
Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 2:07 pm 

Replies: 8,309
Views: 540,402


kraftiekortie wrote:
Why not just close the toilet, if somebody wants it to be closed? It's not that hard to do.


Yep.
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