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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Learning About Relationships: A Discussion

Posted: 06 Sep 2021, 11:47 am 

Replies: 0
Views: 128


I learn how to socially interact by watching others socially interact and then applying knowledge learned there in my own interactions. This method has worked alright in terms of acquaintances, but has worked less so in regards to friendships, and has not worked at all in terms of romantic relations...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: Football obsession in NTs

Posted: 28 Feb 2021, 6:50 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 556


My opinion is that you are mixing up two different sorts of people. In most hobbies, the people that partake in the hobby generally exist in a spectrum (heh) with one end being those who like the hobby in of itself, and at the other end, those who like the hobby because they enjoy the social aspect ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Rejected gift

 Post subject: Re: Rejected gift
Posted: 20 Feb 2021, 9:21 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 210


I think it is a very nice painting, and it very much looks like it has soul within it. I am unsure of your purpose here, but I would like to assure you of the quality of the painting. Good day

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women not getting involved anymore?

Posted: 13 Feb 2021, 3:29 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 669


Well I'd say younger people of all types are more willing to go out on a limb and try something new. So at 17 you'd get college girls asking you out. But at 25 perhaps people have more things on their plate and are less likely to risk their time for something that may not pan out. There is also the...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women not getting involved anymore?

Posted: 13 Feb 2021, 12:34 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 669


Well I'd say younger people of all types are more willing to go out on a limb and try something new. So at 17 you'd get college girls asking you out. But at 25 perhaps people have more things on their plate and are less likely to risk their time for something that may not pan out. There is also the ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What is the limit of your tolerance for your partner?

Posted: 12 Feb 2021, 6:04 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 401


I don't think these kinds of questions can be answered properly. Romance and love make people do weird things that they would not do otherwise, and so to ask a question of how someone would act in such a scenario, while they are on the outside of the scenario looking in, I think is not getting a goo...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: How do YOU study?

 Post subject: Re: How do YOU study?
Posted: 02 Feb 2021, 12:21 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 5,747


I study by taking the knowledge given to us from the materials, and slowly iterating through being able to write out all the concepts into simpler and more basic terms, until I am satisfied, and then remembering that. Doing this takes away all the fluff involved in the teaching, that is usually incl...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 01 Feb 2021, 5:38 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


On thing that helps is to acknowledge that perfection doesn't exist. By all means strive to be the best you can be, but don't be afraid of failure. It's trying your hardest that counts. Thank you for the reply. I was unintentionally misleading when I used the term perfectionism. That would imply th...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 01 Feb 2021, 5:21 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


You are a student. Why do you expect to excel? The point is to learn and develop the skills. And maybe that is your block--you are focusing on the results not the process. Focus on developing the skills. At the beginning, it is hard. There is so much to learn. It is actually a bad sign if you give ...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 31 Jan 2021, 8:02 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


...Please don't do drugs. When I'm stuck with what to write for an essay, I write whatever comes to mind and if I'm stuck I write BATTLESHIP in all caps as a filler word and then come back to that section later. I like this method, since otherwise I can get caught up on the wording and then end up ...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 31 Jan 2021, 7:25 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


how to escape the cycle? you could drop out take lots of mind expanding drugs. do you want to be don't that hamster in a cage, eternally, chasing that validation, from people who couldn't care whether you live or die, and just see you as a replaceable part, cog in a machine, not even , human. I am ...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 31 Jan 2021, 7:07 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


You are a student. Why do you expect to excel? The point is to learn and develop the skills. And maybe that is your block--you are focusing on the results not the process. Focus on developing the skills. At the beginning, it is hard. There is so much to learn. It is actually a bad sign if you give ...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 31 Jan 2021, 1:42 am 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


"Your work does not need to be perfect; it only needs to be better than anyone else's work." Once I had this revelation, all the pressure came off.  I no longer had to score 100% on every single exam (only to hate myself for scoring 99% or less); I only had to score among the highest in t...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 31 Jan 2021, 12:00 am 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


On thing that helps is to acknowledge that perfection doesn't exist. By all means strive to be the best you can be, but don't be afraid of failure. It's trying your hardest that counts. Thank you for the reply. I was unintentionally misleading when I used the term perfectionism. That would imply th...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Perfectionism and failure, how to escape the cycle?

Posted: 29 Jan 2021, 4:28 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,647


Hello, I am here to ask for advice (for which you will receive no reward besides my joy) from humans with all levels of knowledge about things. I would label myself as a perpetually disappointed perfectionist. Perhaps this is a cover for deeper issues, but I cannot share my life story right now so t...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Got Anything Random To Say

Posted: 28 Jan 2021, 6:08 pm 

Replies: 114,001
Views: 3,543,516


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