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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Would I be happier having done something society expects ? |
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| Have you ever had a partner? If society expects you to have a partner, and you in fact get a partner, you might well be happier than you are today, with no partner. And if society expects you to have children, and you in fact have children, you might well be happier than you are today, with no partn... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: A possible perk of being a gay male |
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Replies: 2
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| I'm not sure why this is an Adult Autism Issue. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Megan Markle would not be interested in Prince Harry |
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Posted: Yesterday, 1:28 pm
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| How can your mom or anyone else have that insight authentically? None of us know the lady. None of us know what she likes about Harry. None of us know what her criteria for dating are. Your mom made a tabloid level observation and you're asking us to evaluate it, but we're just as ignorant as your ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What's the oldest memory that you have? |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 5:08 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 720
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| Being in the hospital to have an operation on a hernia in my bellybutton area. I was not yet 3 years old. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2023, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 66
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| Your new job might improve your luck on dating apps too, at least a little bit. In any case, it's great to hear that you got that job! Thanks! Yes, a casino job will give you lots and lots of opportunities to meet people. But be careful. Does the casino have a code of conduct regarding social inter... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Some people don't like wearing glasses socially |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2023, 5:33 pm
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Replies: 33
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| I've never minded wearing glasses publicly. While I met my first wife, when I didn't need glasses, I wore glasses with all the women I date after my first marriage. I think I look at bit younger without them. I wear glasses because i am near-sighted, but I take them off and leave them off for long p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2023, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 120
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| Hot Take: There is another side of this coin. Since most NT women won’t give us the time of day unless we’re at least a 9/10 on the looks scale (which the vast majority of us obviously aren’t), Autustic women need to become more open to dating Autistic men too. The amount of Autistic women I’ve met... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Methods to deal with sleep disorder |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 10:05 am
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Replies: 22
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| Trazadone. I highly recommend it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 9:37 am
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Replies: 120
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| Yes play to your strengths. The question is, how do we figure out what they are? Foreign wife looking to get out of poverty suggestion is a bit icky. Date a range of people. Don't use someone you're not really attracted to though, that's also icky. I find this one difficult because we have natural ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2023, 3:56 pm
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| Accept that life isn't fair and you don't always get what you want in life. If you want to be a pro basketball player but you're 5 ft 5 and slow twitch dominant, tough luck. The only thing you can do is to live life with the cards you've been dealt. I'm not accepting this. If I can't get a girlfrie... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: My gf is extremely passive in sex. |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 8:07 pm
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Replies: 18
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| Maybe you need to step up your performance. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Still trying to get my first entry-level office job in Texas |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 7:09 pm
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| At the end of the first stage of my legal career, around age fifty, I took a job as a live in caretaker for a man with dementia. I literally had to wipe his arse for him. I was with him 24 hours a day, first three then four than five days a week. By the end he was the most important person in my lif... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Condolences for Kortie |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 52
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| I am very sorry for your loss. She will always be with you in your heart. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating sites |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 12
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Between marriages, and long before I knew I had ASD, I had quite a bit of success with online dating. I met my second wife on line nine years ago and had I think four short relationships with women I met on line.
Online dating can be very difficult for men. You really have to have your sh-t together. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Telling me to f**k off |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 6:42 pm
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Replies: 124
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| I wonder Jamesy posts in “Love and Dating” because he’s never in love and he’s never dating. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Funny, corny joke thread |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 9:01 am
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Replies: 205
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| Ned walks into the Windows on the World restaurant on the top floor of Rockefeller Center into New York. He sits down at the bar and orders a drink. The fellow on the stool next to Ned introduces himself, and they begin chatting. The fellow says to Ned, "you know, at certain times of the year, ... |
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