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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: what should i do?

Posted: 02 May 2010, 6:55 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,270


Men and women have different needs. Don't expect him to know your needs-- tell him. Also, be open to knowing his needs (that may include space or not being expected to doing everything naturally, if it isn't natural). I agree that most men don't like talking about relationships-- but it is an integr...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 02 May 2010, 10:54 am 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


Well, it's not necessarily going to take an hour out of their day, lol. Mark doesn't watch it 24/7. Just occasionally and not like it's some crazy-intense, plot-based feature film. Though, the porn that /tries/ to be damned entertaining for totally different reasons. Like the porn version of "Run L...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do you meet someone when you work all the time?

Posted: 01 May 2010, 1:35 pm 

Replies: 1
Views: 1,850


I suppose this is where on-line dating sites come into play. You can chat online and figure out a time to meet on the days you have off. It makes it more difficult, but it can be done.

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 01 May 2010, 1:26 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


I have so many fetishes that it's unlikely that they might all be satisfied within a relationship. And if they are the woman will be a damned sight kinkier than me in any case. I am not sure what this means. It's not like you are engaging in your fetishes by watching porn. :?: It means that I want ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Happy, sociable aspie?

Posted: 30 Apr 2010, 5:52 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 3,413


My bf seems really normal to everyone who doesn't know him very well. The people that do know him and don't know about the AS diagnosis say he has "social issues," but is funny and easy going. It's much more obvious to me, being with him every day.

So, I think its absolutely possible.

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 30 Apr 2010, 5:48 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


Tequila wrote:
I have so many fetishes that it's unlikely that they might all be satisfied within a relationship. And if they are the woman will be a damned sight kinkier than me in any case.


I am not sure what this means. It's not like you are engaging in your fetishes by watching porn. :?:

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: Sibling Issues

Posted: 29 Apr 2010, 7:23 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 2,547


This becomes really difficult, IMO, because C has a LOT more toys than T has. T is allowed to play with C's PS2 without permission, his fooseball table, and a lot of other stuff. I am not a fan of having to ask permission to play with every little thing-- and to me, a ball shouldn't be a big deal. ...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 29 Apr 2010, 6:55 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


I haven't had a chance to get back to this. But honestly-- if your relationship is good, and the one thing someone doesn't want you to do is watch porn, is it that important? I have never understood the importance put on it by some people. I don't think anyone needs porn. I still think its up to eac...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: "He accepts me the way that I am"

Posted: 29 Apr 2010, 6:45 pm 

Replies: 40
Views: 4,234


Loving someone for who they are doesn't mean you have to like everything about them. That's the whole definition of unconditional love: "You have these traits, you do these things that annoy or upset me, but I STILL love you". No-one should ever expect people to love them 100% exactly the way they ...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: it's the little things... :-)

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 4:28 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 683


That's neat :D And you didn't even have to tell him-- he came up with it all on his own. Very cute.

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: Sibling Issues

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 4:27 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 2,547


I appreciate all the responses. I, too, let the kids vent about each other. It's better than them acting on the frustration! If this really is a Theory of Mind issue, then I am unsure of how to get him to understand that his actions are also hurting others. I really want to avoid those situations wi...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 3:23 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


To me, people and their feelings are more important than porn. If you don't feel that way, there are plenty of women who don't mind porn. As for what's wrong with portraying women like sex objects-- a lot of women don't like that and we get sick of being treated that way. So what's wrong with it? D...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Complimenting a girl

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 2:55 pm 

Replies: 48
Views: 4,000


Well, I don't know why but I do know that my AS bf has a really hard time complimenting anyone-- especially me. He says he thinks these things and they just .... don't come out. It's almost as if the compliment gets stuck in the filter between brain and mouth. I am relieved to say that I completely ...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Watching porn within a relationship

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 1:35 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 1,182


If I had a girlfriend and she told me I couldn't watch porn, she wouldn't be my girlfriend for much longer. Others (the majority of which are female, admittedly) argue that it is an act of mental unfaithfulness when a guy lusts for and gets off to other women who are usually beautiful The problem t...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: Bedtime

Posted: 27 Apr 2010, 9:33 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 3,029


First, your husband not getting sleep is unacceptable. Your son may need some security, but your dh needs the sleep. It is unsafe for him to be driving while sleep deprived. Secondly, I agree with mu_girl05. Giving choices is appropriate-- it gives your son more control. The choice can not, however,...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: One night stands?

Posted: 26 Apr 2010, 5:45 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 993


To be honest, I don't think I could do that type of fling thing either anyway. I guess I should resign myself to the fact and become a hermit or a nun or something. I used to like the idea of becoming a hermit, because it sounded like a hermit crab. yes Im resigned to living as a hermit as Im very ...
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