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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Increasing popularity of friends-first approach |
| cyberdad |
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| For example, a woman can date five horrible men, and then decide that all men are utter scum. Her actual lived experience validates this, cos "literally every man" she dated was in fact awful. All five of them. So, it's not exactly a fair comment, is it? Despite her "actual lived exp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Lecia_Wynter wrote: The problem is male genetics. There isn't a large enough ratio of attractive males so women develop an avoidant personality. 
Those chromosomes look like furries |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Whoopi Goldberg suspended for racist comments |
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| Plenty of white people hate white people. Plenty of white people throw around the term “whiteness”. It is not a positive word. I have separate thread coming up about ‘White Fragility’ author Robin DeAngelo. It does not make a significant difference to me if the person who hates me for being white i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
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| BTW, Am I the only one to think parents who commit infanticide aren't really the ppl who should then have others of the right biological gender? :scratch: Not just infanticide, remember what happened to family pets in Wuhan? https://content.api.news/v3/images/bin/1487cc878e6e89936521b2f0bc96e8c7 Co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Increasing popularity of friends-first approach |
| cyberdad |
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| The advice you give, currently, carries heavily the weight of how-you-felt back then. Trauma seldom makes for good advice. Actually lived experience is considered the best teacher for others. I'm trying my best to be as authentic about how I felt, but my 32 yr old self is far different to my 55 yea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
| cyberdad |
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Replies: 127
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| Not all womyn follow the social narrative of finding a mate and starting a family. This is becoming more prevalent around the world. It is becoming a "problem" in countries such as Japan and Taiwan. This may change the dynamics you have presented here, over time. I have mentioned a few ti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Increasing popularity of friends-first approach |
| cyberdad |
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Replies: 142
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| The advice you give, currently, carries heavily the weight of how-you-felt back then. Trauma seldom makes for good advice. Actually lived experience is considered the best teacher for others. I'm trying my best to be as authentic about how I felt, but my 32 yr old self is far different to my 55 yea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Increasing popularity of friends-first approach |
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uncommondenominator wrote: You were then, and are now, a grown-a** adult. Whatever decisions led you to that situation, were made by you..
Yes I pretty much took responsibility for my own bad decisions |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
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Posted: Yesterday, 10:19 pm
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| I don't think women who use Tinder are representative of women in general. Just my OPINION. 8) The women who use tinder are what's known as "leftover" women (term they use in China but could equally be applied over here). Those men in their 40s who have a basic wage are left to fight for ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If life isn't about being like everyone else, then why do... |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:19 pm
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chris1989 wrote: rse92 wrote: Then why don't you get married and start a family? How can I get married and start a family when I'm not even with anybody at the moment?
That's the mountain in front of you to climb with wifey on the summit |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:18 pm
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| That statement is a bit exaggerated otherwise you wouldn't see normal looking guys with girlfriends. Although it's true that many women can be quite picky, although not to that extreme though unless your last name is Kardashian. . I'll address that. Normal looking guys with average parents have the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Tinder Regional Experiment - 6 countries, 6 days. |
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Posted: Yesterday, 4:12 pm
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| This is myth, most numbers show that most women on Tinder are looking for relationships, not hookups. The algorithm would be weighted based on preference still. Women in western countries still want a relationship with a 6foot5 Brad Pitt with Bill Gate's salary and work their way down when that opt... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get on with Neurotypicals |
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Posted: Yesterday, 3:58 pm
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| 'Doing weird things' is just too vague. I know you're trying to explain but those things he did don't apply to me. I never said anyone is anything. I just said when people do weird things i t becomes harder to get on in the neurotypical world. I gave examples of things I experienced that were weird. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If life isn't about being like everyone else, then why do... |
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Posted: Yesterday, 3:51 pm
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| There's a weird thing about individualistic culture. People feel complimented when one of their peers tells them they lived a "unique life" or they they have unique style". I'm reminded of the famous song "I did it my way". No personal story isn't without trials and tribulat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seeing young women around is so painful... |
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Posted: Yesterday, 2:31 am
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| Reminds me of an old Commodores song Young girls are my weakness Young girls are my weakness I just like their sweetness Young girls are my weakness Hey girls let's mess around I wanna party with you on the town Some girls really make me swing There ain't nothin' like a pretty young thing Young girl... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get on with Neurotypicals |
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Posted: Yesterday, 2:21 am
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| It's weird how many people ask questions about NTs on this forum but when a real life NT pops in (ok butts in) they run away I suspect that a lot of people here have already suffered through way too much well-meaning (or not) advice from neurotypicals. I'd run away too, if I were them. hmmm I guess... |
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