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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 02 Oct 2022, 10:21 am 

Replies: 18
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Kit Lily, I had another friend like that only she had more profound disabilities and and a very protective mom. Part of the problem is that we both led very different lives. She didn’t have anything going on in her own life so she made me feel as if it was my responsibility to make happy. Basically,...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 01 Oct 2022, 10:58 am 

Replies: 18
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Thanks Kitlily: My other ex-friend, who was threatened by my ditched me in other ways. When she was engaged, I had a house warming party and I asked her to help me prepare for the party. She agreed to help me too. Yet instead of helping me, she went and bought her wedding gown and showed up late. Ho...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 30 Sep 2022, 11:59 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


Kitliy, I think I agree with you but I think the OP started a discussion about toxic and destructive relationships. What does this bit mean? I don't understand. When the original poster shared her experiences of falling out with a toxic friend, I think it opened up a lot of dialogue about similar e...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 30 Sep 2022, 8:18 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


Kitly, I think I agree with you but I think the OP started a discussion about toxic and destructive relationships. As for that former friend, she’s got some serious problems of her own that go beyond jealousy and being fake. I also used to associate with one of her sisters as well who happen to I di...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 30 Sep 2022, 7:17 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


Kitly, I think I agree with you but I think the OP started a discussion about toxic and destructive relationships. As for that former friend, she’s got some serious problems of her own that go beyond jealousy and being fake. I used to associate with one of her sisters as well. I dislike her well bec...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 29 Sep 2022, 10:30 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


I talked to a someone about that yesterday and she they said that fake people typically are threatened by genuine and authentic people. However, this person was also threatened by me for other reasons. For example, I knew how to get along with people in her family who she didn’t get along with. So s...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 29 Sep 2022, 9:44 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


Everyone's experiences just make me think that friendship is actually not a real thing anymore. No one seems to have good friends these days, everyone seems to be individuals competing against each other. WTF is going on in society. I have associated with some competitive people who posed as my fri...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Coping with the loss of a best friend

Posted: 28 Sep 2022, 2:51 pm 

Replies: 18
Views: 207


I am so sorry that you had a falling out with this person and it's always hard when you lose someone who were felt you were close to. Based on what I have read about her and as lonely as it sounds, she doesn't sound like she was a good friend from the get-go. For one thing, that's someone who will c...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I said no this time

 Post subject: Re: I said no this time
Posted: 28 Sep 2022, 12:28 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 415


I think it's good that you stood your ground and said no. Yes, I think so too because I am not obligated to take care of someone's pet if that owner is going to give me an attitude like that. I texted him back and acknowledged his wishes before telling him that I didn't think it's a good idea for m...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Bullied into adulthood

 Post subject: Re: Bullied into adulthood
Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 3:16 pm 

Replies: 70
Views: 9,469


Another type of bullying: Adults can bullying you by dropping hints that they are not interested by inviting everyone else to do something but you by doing the inviting right in front of you. Meanwhile, they give you the "Oh hi you're there too" then walk off. Regardless, that's so rude an...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I said no this time

 Post subject: Re: I said no this time
Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 10:36 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 415


Re-written update: I think that my taking care of his cat and even considering him as a friend are pretty much history. Though he found someone else last minute, I got another attack from him via text. When he first got home, he told me that he wanted a two week notice the next time I am going to ba...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I thought I made myself perfectly clear

Posted: 15 Sep 2022, 6:44 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 304


Thanks, I told him that I didn’t want to be with him because all he does is compare himself to others. Paraphrasing: Him: Well that’s normal everyone does that. How dare you dump me for disagreeing with me. :lol: No, that’s the straw that broke the camel’s back. Actually, I cut it off with him becau...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I thought I made myself perfectly clear

Posted: 14 Sep 2022, 9:52 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 304


How old is this dude? 18? No, he’s in his early 50’s A man that age will never change. Put him behind you. Yes, I think so too because I don’t have the time or energy to associate with someone like that. The last time I got together with him and his cousin, he got on my nerves Examples: 1. Kept poi...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I thought I made myself perfectly clear

Posted: 14 Sep 2022, 7:21 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 304


How old is this dude? 18? No, he’s in his early 50’s hmmm Yes but as I mentioned above, he’s very immature. The way he handled my rebuff and he responded tells me a lot. When I met him 10 years ago, he lived in my city and was talking big then. However, I never saw him seeming to make any effort.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I thought I made myself perfectly clear

Posted: 13 Sep 2022, 5:38 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 304


cyberdad wrote:
How old is this dude? 18?


No, he’s in his early 50’s

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I thought I made myself perfectly clear

Posted: 13 Sep 2022, 4:48 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 304


Two things

1. He wanted me to show him how to set some goals and take baby steps towards getting an education and a career

2. Being that I understand math, he wanted me to help him with the math in his “Book.” He also said he wanted me to reach out to my Jewish friends at my synagogue.
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