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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Lady at work keeps interrogating me 0.o

Posted: 08 Sep 2018, 3:10 am 

Replies: 189
Views: 3,856


Either you try to become much more self confident or you should start to skip all of your wishes of finding a girl friend. For me it sounds like if she likes you and expected to be invited to something better than a pizza by you. You sucked and you should learn from it. Sorry!

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Autism is caused by faulty genes, nothing else

Posted: 08 Sep 2018, 2:41 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 423


Must be caused by a faulty gene, not vaccines, not premature births, not complications at birth, etc etc. May be but I think you may be wrong. It also could be the result of something that happened in your childhood and the autism is something that you developed for mental or physical self-protecti...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Empathy Quotient

 Post subject: Re: Empathy Quotient
Posted: 08 Sep 2018, 1:35 am 

Replies: 41
Views: 2,279


Keep in mind that ASD is an fact several spectrums in one, so it's possible to be good at organisation and still have ASD. Which autistic traits a person has and how they affect the person will vary from person to person. That's right. For me it's I just recognised my lack of empathy and it bothere...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Empathy Quotient

 Post subject: Re: Empathy Quotient
Posted: 07 Sep 2018, 2:42 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 2,279


Cognitive empathy is the ability to see something from someone else's perspective, and many people with ASD are bad at this. Even if I recognise how others feel it doesn't affects me emotionally all all except I see sadness or fun in someones face. I have nearly no emotional empathy only cognitive ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Empathy Quotient

 Post subject: Re: Empathy Quotient
Posted: 06 Sep 2018, 8:32 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 2,279


Alirat wrote:
I get very upset seeing people sad etc or a sad situation - but the empathy she was talking about was nothing to do with that. Who'd have known eh?

You mean such as feel the emotions of other people? I don't even know several of this emotion. :?
31 8O

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Mind blindness is...so...hard!

Posted: 06 Sep 2018, 7:44 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 375


Fnord wrote:
In that case -- and I do not mean to offend you by saying this -- you seem normal.

Nearly, except my lack of emotions and empathie. That's my problem and the reason why I'm trying to read people. But I'm also trying to help people to get rid of their proplems if I can.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Mind blindness is...so...hard!

Posted: 06 Sep 2018, 6:20 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 375


So you are trying to convince me that you have some special mental ability that allows you to change other people's emotional state any time you want. That is totally bogus! You got me little bit wrong. People think better of me if I'm looking relaxed or happy than if they do if I'm looking sad or ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Mind blindness is...so...hard!

Posted: 06 Sep 2018, 1:03 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 375


Are you all trying to say that the state of your own minds determines the state of everyone else's minds That's right. And you simply want to know how other people feel because it determines how they treat you. If someone is looking angry at you may have to defend yourself because he possibly wants...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Only a professional really knows about you?

Posted: 05 Sep 2018, 2:28 pm 

Replies: 32
Views: 957


You are not deemed intelligent enough to know about yourself. Only a professional who has hardly seen you can do that. This is what some people would have you believe. It depends. It's good if other people tell you their oppinion about you otherwise you would have to read their minds to get a clue ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Mind blindness is...so...hard!

Posted: 05 Sep 2018, 1:32 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 375


It's a thing of empathie. NT people try to guess your mind by trying to feel like you. If you are happy they feel happy too. Are you angry while looking at them they feel angry too and they think they have to protect themselves from attacks from you. So if you are not angry with them do never look a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: My therapist gave me homework

Posted: 04 Sep 2018, 4:20 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 1,128


Marknis wrote:
Just how can I feel better after all the bad things I've had to go through this year?

s**t happens so learn to deal with it. Skip your desperation it does not help you at all. Once you are down try to hear a little bit hard rock and enjoy the power of it.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What is the intention of NT girls if they rub on men?

Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 6:14 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 866


The intention is to gauge his response, and if he responds positively and is sexy enough, then they'll probably make out or whatever. Basically she wants him to dance seductively with her, for a start. To flirt with the bodies. Thanks for the answers. Because of my lack of the related emotions it's...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What is the intention of NT girls if they rub on men?

Posted: 31 Aug 2018, 5:45 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 866


I know they show some kind of affection but I don't get their real intention because of my lack of empathie for acting like this. For me it's quite normal that a third of the girls in a normal disco rub their tits or shoulders once the pass some less start to rub their back may be even if they are d...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I’m surprised by the answer I got.

Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 6:33 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 746


I asked “Are we going to be BF/GF in the future?” Strange question. Women always prefer guys who are self confident and know what they want. Her answer is no surprise. Why not "I 'm totally into you! I wan't you to be my GF!" ? Say clear what you want. Give the direction. Don't ask her fo...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to be a Real Man. Rawr.

Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 2:02 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 387


traven wrote:
that saw.... :hail:

My first thought. But "Real men don't feel emotions." -> That's why I'm here. :wink:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Creepy Approach

 Post subject: Re: Creepy Approach
Posted: 28 Aug 2018, 1:14 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 796


guitarman2010 wrote:
I don't know how long to maintain eye contact with them.


If they look angry at you don't do it. Otherwise as long as they do but don't keep staring at the eyes if they don't look back. And always try to keep a good mood and a smile as long as you do.
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