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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 03 May 2021, 2:14 am 

Replies: 111
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Chimps are the only known animal apart from humans who like humping and masturbating for pleasure as well (not for reproduction). That's wrong. There are many more mammals like this. Dogs, dolphins, hyenas ... No animal has reproduction in mind if doing so. :wink: So it's always for pleasure only. ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:41 pm 

Replies: 111
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I have read some variation on this straight-single-guy-dating-advice a hundred times at least and seen the terms "alpha / beta" male a thousand times, the modern culture seems obsessed by it, in reality these terms come from zoology and were used to describe ape males -and- females. If a ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Why I'm easily triggered by this lack of empathy BS

Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:22 pm 

Replies: 32
Views: 1,327


Empathy makes life easier but there are more important things than noticing and sharing the emotions of others. In case of my divorce both kids decided to stay with me. My son did say that the character counts more. I watched people becoming manipulated easily because of their empathy. Seems to make...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Really confused. Never dated before. Help me?

Posted: 02 May 2021, 5:25 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 508


Sounds like he is shy. Be aware that he may not realize your emotions unless you are pretty much direct. Not even few people with Asperger's struggle with indirectness as well as realizing the feelings of others. :wink:

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I spend way too much time alone.

Posted: 02 May 2021, 4:28 pm 

Replies: 42
Views: 1,142


Coffee? Remind me to "Jungs, noch Kaffee?" (Guys - how about a coffee?)

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: My Peers Who Still Stigmatize Me

Posted: 02 May 2021, 9:46 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,016


What advantages have men on the spectrum?
Not even few are always singled out and don't even have any real chance of a relationship in life.
And also emotions are less universal than you are expecting.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Finding Real Connection

 Post subject: Re: Finding Real Connection
Posted: 02 May 2021, 7:28 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 672


Should I? 8O

If it comes to autistic women - not even few otherwise stunning ones are lacking the common signals of sexual interest that are pretty normal for NT women who are usually actively trying to seduce their targets of interest. May be that you should consider that as an option?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I spend way too much time alone.

Posted: 02 May 2021, 6:36 am 

Replies: 42
Views: 1,142


I guess it's more of an introspective problem than a literal wall in front of me, I should actually go do some stuff today but it's not an easy feeling. Get out into the sun light where you can see some people. Try to keep a much to good mood and make yourself a nice Sunday! Life is to short to was...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I will never physically 'grow up'

Posted: 01 May 2021, 3:49 pm 

Replies: 23
Views: 610


You are a woman who wants to be a guy? Not even few Asian girls are looking a bit child like. Are you into girls or guys despite of that? I once had a strange experience with a girl who did dress like a guy and did crush on me because of a smile. I didn't realized it because I thought her being a pu...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do women view me?

 Post subject: Re: How do women view me?
Posted: 01 May 2021, 1:05 pm 

Replies: 46
Views: 2,800


I've tried approaching women many times. I have never not gotten rejected. Does 'never not' of you mean 'always' ore 'never'? How women see you depends a lot on how you are acting. I can't even tell regarding myself too but I'm very aware that they nearly always have wrong expectations or get me ki...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Autism and encoding facial emotions

Posted: 01 May 2021, 10:45 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 501


In my ASD test I got the lowest score my assessor had ever recorded for "Reading emotions in the eyes". It was first percentile and deemed a significant clinical risk for being conned, manipulated, exploited, etc. - which actually explains a lot about my life. Sorry to hear that. I did on...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Autism and encoding facial emotions

Posted: 01 May 2021, 10:24 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 501


Wow, this makes a lot of sense. Generally when I am trying to read someone's face, it's like I am Sherlock scanning a room for clues (contracted eyebrows, narrowed nostrils, compressed lips = disgust/anger???) It takes several seconds (vs. a neurotypical's ability to read expressions in < 1 second)...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 01 May 2021, 8:36 am 

Replies: 111
Views: 3,003


But according to psychologists empathy can be trained. I think this is linked to social contacts in that the more effort you make to pay attention to people's feelings the more you understand them. But of course attention takes effort and concentration which competes with other things going on in t...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 01 May 2021, 6:22 am 

Replies: 111
Views: 3,003


I can't pretend to know how hard that is to overcome, but it should at least be an aspirational goal. Confidence comes with bravery and the more times you try, the better you become. You expecting of people who are bad at making contacts and bad at making friends at all to create a lot of contacts ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How do women view me?

 Post subject: Re: How do women view me?
Posted: 01 May 2021, 4:19 am 

Replies: 46
Views: 2,800


Women don't just entirely ignore that I exist. I have a long history of women going out of their ways to spend time with me and get to know me. But it has always been strictly as a friend. This has happened many time in college and afterwards. Most of these women had boyfriends at the time... Any a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence

Posted: 01 May 2021, 3:30 am 

Replies: 111
Views: 3,003


Stop listening to male self help specialists. Start listening to female friends. If you don't have female friends, you're not ready for a girlfriend. Not everyone has to have someone. If you're not into socialising, a relationship is a bad idea because it's pretty much sharing your life with someon...
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