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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 08 Feb 2021, 2:17 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Means he read my message of my available times and did not respond.

Generally seen as a sign of disinterest if done too long or at inopportune times.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 08 Feb 2021, 1:44 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


He has still left me on read... I don't know what his thinking is. He is a difficult man to decipher.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 08 Feb 2021, 8:58 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Ummm I'm pretty sure he's not Orthodox. He said he's like a blend of Reform and Conservative. But... idk. I didn't really want to ask that question when we are not even dating yet. He's very friendly. I don't think he's misogynistic just because he happens to be religious. He left me on read when I ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 08 Feb 2021, 5:14 am 

Replies: 149
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I didn't know his religion would get so much attention on here? Well, I got the sense that he was flirting with me last year, before the pandemic. Yeah, he's somewhat observant and I know the religious rules in Judaism, I also know that they're shifting now in more progressive circles. It really dep...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 6:35 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


While I was getting dinner, he came up to me to get my attention and said hi, and apologized for everything, started asking about my weekend and everything. And then when I gave him a chance to exit the conversation he followed me to get dinner, and kept talking to me. So we talked about plans and e...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 3:20 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Then what am I to make of his response?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 2:26 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


I doubt it. I suppose asking this question in a forum full of Aspies is a bit of "blind leading the blind" and everything. Yes, this is very much mixed signals. Sending someone your availability schedule is... pragmatic but slightly distant. Nothing he wrote seemed to indicate that he unde...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Express your pain in the form of music

Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 11:18 am 

Replies: 88
Views: 3,254


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=539Gf5B3cjI This song is a cover of Chester Bennington's song. When you change the tune, it sounds almost like someone's accepted the negative parts of life. Instead of being angry, they're now in acceptance. I feel like Chester is happy that someone made something p...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I Tried To Kill Myself

 Post subject: Re: I Tried To Kill Myself
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 11:14 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 627


I'm so sorry that this happened to you. None of us on here would want to see you hurt. Reach out to any of us if you need us, okay?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Anyone else here the child of academics?

Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 11:12 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 133


I've heard a lot about Aspies being children of academics at higher rates than regular children. For me, it's made my life a struggle. ASD caused a lot of problems with schoolwork. My mom was valedictorian of her high school class, while I struggled to finish high school at all. My dad graduated wit...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 9:29 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Well he sent me a message that said "Oh s**t, I didn't explain myself. I meant that you could head over to my table when you were free since your table was full. I'd be happy to ttys. Let me know what day works for you." Then he sent me his availability schedule. He seems friendly, but has...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 7:24 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


I dunno, but I find dating a friend’s sister to be extremely awkward, the closer the friend the more awkward too; it’s not very common from what I see btw. Maybe he does feel that too. If that is how he feels, I respect that and everything. My brother and I are pretty chill. My brother has always s...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 7:21 am 

Replies: 149
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update: Oh, good lord, I have two messages from him on insta. ugh. i do not want to read them. No.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 4:24 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Since my brother is good friends with the guy, if he thinks that the guy doing this at dinner or taking too long to respond on insta isn't a big deal for him, then I take his word at some weight.

But no one really knows.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 3:59 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


I second guessed myself because my brother (his close friend) was like "this isn't a huge deal."

But yeah. And also, if someone who you had a modicum of respect for told you to check ig... you would not fail to do so for 6 hours. Idek what someone does on discord for 6 hours. But... no.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I shot my shot

 Post subject: Re: I shot my shot
Posted: 07 Feb 2021, 3:44 am 

Replies: 149
Views: 3,551


Like it's almost 4 am, he is still on discord, and has not checked insta.
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