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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Stepdad doesn't care about me being touched as a kid

Posted: 07 May 2019, 6:10 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 207

I think he 'got done' because he'd abused other kids in the past. The police were looking for him or something. I'm not sure exactly, to say I felt so 'grown up' I can't remember all the details. Mum kept a fair bit from me. Also it wasn't just talking, it was things which could be read as platonic ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What kind of woman would think Asperger's is sexy?

Posted: 07 May 2019, 4:10 am 

Replies: 112
Views: 13,155

My NT mother. Especially ones without social anxiety. She loves the confidence it takes to be unique and be oneself. The two men she's liked the most in her life have been, well not diagnosed aspie but she calls them aspie and they act totally aspie. It's probably unhealthy but she also prefers me b...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: American censorship

 Post subject: Re: American censorship
Posted: 07 May 2019, 4:01 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 549

Actually a lot of the things over from the US wouldn't be allowed to be made by the BBC. Especially the English BBC which used to have great comedy but is totally neutered now. If you want proper comedy from the UK these days, ask a Scot like Frankie Boyle. S... is controversial in English speaking ...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Aspie anger

 Post subject: Re: Aspie anger
Posted: 07 May 2019, 3:03 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 349

No. My NT mother has it. She makes everyone pity her instead of arguing properly. Aspies are more honestly aggressive. But sometimes people think aspies are being passive aggressive because they're not acting NT enough so they're not smiling or being friendly and they need their own space. I don't k...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Accent mimicry

 Post subject: Accent mimicry
Posted: 07 May 2019, 2:46 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 347

Is accent mimicry an autistic thing? I don't mean doing it on purpose which generally comes off as mean. I hope it doesn't come off as mean when I do it. Basically when I hear someone with a strong accent talk for long enough, my accent becomes their accent. So when I was growing up, I had a Skye ac...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What's on your mind right now?

Posted: 07 May 2019, 2:28 am 

Replies: 33,388
Views: 731,842

This guy I met at the weekend. Not in a het way which I'm sure my compliments sounded like to him even though I said 'I'm gay' he probably felt like 'and I'm the exception, hot'... Not even envy which I thought it was at first. It's pride. He has all the traits I used to get made fun of for, he has ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Stepdad doesn't care about me being touched as a kid

Posted: 06 May 2019, 3:17 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 207

Yeah, I just keep thinking if I heard a kid had been touched how would I feel? Especially one who was under my care (mum was away in America at the time). But I know what it's like to not care. It was only watching Finding Neverland which made me feel like I'd been groomed/aware of the problem actua...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Should I quit social media again?

Posted: 06 May 2019, 12:09 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,973

Yeah that's true. Also radicalism doesn't just happen from reading things you agree with. I figured out one reason I've been feeling so down lately is a deliberate effort to break out of my bubble by going to the opposition stuff all the time and that's been making me feel really bad and called out ...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today.

Posted: 06 May 2019, 11:19 am 

Replies: 27,043
Views: 861,928

That's not a good enough reason to believe that no one missed you , not everyone uses that thread and not everyone says if they miss someone. Also as this is an autistic website , I'd like to point out that lot of people on the spectrum have an ‘Out of sight, out of mind’ trait , it's not personal ...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today.

Posted: 06 May 2019, 10:18 am 

Replies: 27,043
Views: 861,928

I checked the who do you miss thread :( And because all I spoke about was one topic and most people on here don't get the topic. I kept using here as a dumping ground for things I should have brought up months later with other friends. I'm trying to treat this more as a place where I actually think ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Stepdad doesn't care about me being touched as a kid

Posted: 06 May 2019, 10:16 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 207

I feel like my stepdad doesn't care or want to talk about what happened. When I was 13, this guy touched my bare leg and talked to me about sex. He was in his 30s. I'm very tomboyish to the point of trans and he was saying 'our boys have sex with our men' after I told him what my interests were... (...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today.

Posted: 06 May 2019, 9:54 am 

Replies: 27,043
Views: 861,928

Nobody missed me. But that was half my fault

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Not allowed to talk to people

Posted: 06 May 2019, 9:32 am 

Replies: 37
Views: 796

Guys, I figured it out. I was being over literal. When she said 'don't talk to people' she meant 'don't feel the need to go up to strange men you don't know and start a conversation you don't know how to have because you have something in common'. That's why she's ok with it all the rest of the time...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What is the general age of Wrong Planet?

Posted: 06 May 2019, 9:08 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 540

SaveFerris wrote:
I am under 60 and under 50 but ticked the under 50 :P

Yeah, I was wondering if I'd be the only one aspie enough to notice/be bothered by that.

I'm in the 30-39 bracket.

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Taking a break

 Post subject: Re: Taking a break
Posted: 06 May 2019, 9:04 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 212

I'm back guys.

I figured out the best thing to do on here is not talk about football over much.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Boundaries vs Trust

 Post subject: Boundaries vs Trust
Posted: 06 May 2019, 8:38 am 

Replies: 0
Views: 146

(It's TUF. I'm breaking this down without talking about football) This is basically what the issue is. I suspect my stepdad is basically HFA but old so undiagnosed. He acts very aspie (and embarrassing) in an extroverted way where he trusts everyone in the world. He doesn't understand social roles l...
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