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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: No one will listen

 Post subject: Re: No one will listen
Posted: 13 Jan 2022, 4:42 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 764


I didn't want to annoy people with a new thread so I'll just say it here. I just realized I don't have any friends. It took me a while of denying it, and trying to say that people who don't text me back are just busy, but I actually have no friends at all, and haven't for years. I go on the search f...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: narcissistic personality and autism

Posted: 13 Jan 2022, 3:10 pm 

Replies: 50
Views: 3,884


It seems that people who are a bit needier are judged as narcissistic than the others who don't deal with the same stuff. :roll: Can't ignore pain and need for help? Narcissistic. Don't have sensory filters to block out details that is registered as equally important? Narcissistic. Can't get along ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Finding the "real you" after noting unaware masking

Posted: 13 Jan 2022, 9:17 am 

Replies: 28
Views: 2,548


I always say that I have "public mode" where I feel like I can't talk or make eye contact and stuff like that. It almost feels like a separate person sometimes because it's completely automatic and I have no way to break out of it. I feel like if I was masking and aware of it, I would real...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Nurodiverse parents and fitting in

Posted: 12 Jan 2022, 11:07 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,124


I'm still a kid, so I can give you my perspective. My parents basically have no friends outside of the family, so I don't get friends from their friend's kids like most people probably do. I also have basically no way to socialize outside of this house because they don't understand wanting friends. ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: No one will listen

 Post subject: Re: No one will listen
Posted: 11 Jan 2022, 6:34 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 764


Hello Cora. I am glad you are feeling better now. I could really hear the pain you were expressing. It is real. Your problems are real. Your perceptions are real. You are probably smarter than most of the adults who are supposed to help you, but don't. I was miserable as a teen too. I had no idea I...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: No one will listen

 Post subject: Re: No one will listen
Posted: 11 Jan 2022, 3:33 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 764


Thank you both so much. This rant was kinda directed at medical "professionals" who always seem to invalidate my struggles and deny my pain because it isn't "official" to them and listening to me wouldn't give them money. Luckily it has gotten better by now but I was in so much p...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: No one will listen

 Post subject: No one will listen
Posted: 11 Jan 2022, 11:37 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 764


Why does no one care? I'm venting here because I feel horrible physically and I am too uncomfortable to talk to anyone. But my condition isn't real! It doesn't exist to these people! They're evil, I hate them. I hope I die and it's all their fault. I have researched all I could, come up with so many...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: I've been diagnosed with ADHD!

Posted: 05 Jan 2022, 1:09 pm 

Replies: 32
Views: 3,911


I'm so happy for you! It's a wonderful day when you are able to confirm something you know about yourself!
It's probably been a long journey, so you should get or do something for yourself to celebrate. :D

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: The unpopular WP members club

Posted: 04 Jan 2022, 5:38 pm 

Replies: 6,290
Views: 500,913


I'm seriously considering going off about my original universe here, because no one else cares and doesn't want to hear about it, but I'd love to inform some people. Anyone wanna see a post explaining Shipdom? I need to practice before I show off the whole thing to my mom. Give'r. Also, do you post...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: The unpopular WP members club

Posted: 04 Jan 2022, 12:06 pm 

Replies: 6,290
Views: 500,913


I'm seriously considering going off about my original universe here, because no one else cares and doesn't want to hear about it, but I'd love to inform some people. Anyone wanna see a post explaining Shipdom? I need to practice before I show off the whole thing to my mom.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: where do i fit?

 Post subject: Re: where do i fit?
Posted: 04 Jan 2022, 11:55 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,068


I tried to respond individually to those who responded to my first message, but it didn't work. Is there a tutorial or anything like that to explain how to do this? Meanwhile, thanks to doubleretired for believing i will fit in here. Fitting in has been a nearly lifelong issue for me, as i suppose ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm considering leaving Christianity

Posted: 04 Jan 2022, 11:52 am 

Replies: 59
Views: 2,290


Thank you all for your replies. My parents don't go to church, as they don't fit in anywhere, and I'm homeschooled, so I only have a few people I can talk to. I feel pretty clueless of what to do next, you all have some good suggestions, but I can't really do much right now, and I hardly ever look a...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm considering leaving Christianity

Posted: 03 Jan 2022, 7:21 pm 

Replies: 59
Views: 2,290


kraftiekortie wrote:
Who told you you are not “chosen”?

No one directly, I've just always known this about myself and it only became apparent recently when my parents changed. They get more and more extreme politically and religiously the longer they stay in this house and don't go outside.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm considering leaving Christianity

Posted: 03 Jan 2022, 1:54 pm 

Replies: 59
Views: 2,290


You're young and innocent. I don't mean to be condescending but you're not really aware of how the world works. I know I wasn't at your age. Thanks, I came here for encouragement because I can't talk to anyone about it IRL, but apparently I'm just too innocent and don't understand so I have to deal...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm considering leaving Christianity

Posted: 03 Jan 2022, 1:17 pm 

Replies: 59
Views: 2,290


theprisoner wrote:
I'm sorry to inform you, but it sounds like you're the victim of socio-cultural thought pattern conditioning (a.k.a brainwashing.) You might want to look into that.

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. I don't think this is serious enough to be considered brainwashing.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm considering leaving Christianity

Posted: 03 Jan 2022, 1:00 pm 

Replies: 59
Views: 2,290


I'm sorry if I should have posted this in religion/politics instead. I seriously need some guidance, but I can't talk to my parents about this. I used to believe in God and found it comforting. But since I was tiny, I started to realize something. Everyone else talked about knowing that God was ther...
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