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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 7:19 am
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| I can't believe there aren't any women who wouldn't be interested in simple companionship with you. I have lost track. Is your area small in population? I live in a major city. Are you a bit of a book worm? Are there book clubs in your area? I'm not too into books. Occasionally I'll seek out non-fi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2023, 6:06 am
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| As he has explained numerous times, while he does understand that obtaining "a driving licence and semi-decent job" would indeed make it much less difficult for him to find a girlfriend, his loneliness robs him of the emotional energy to do those things. In all honesty, I'm not convinced ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2023, 11:04 pm
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| Indeed, do NOT mention suicide. Dunno what kind of mandatory reporting laws you have in Australia, but, here in the U.S.A. at least, mentioning suicide to a mental health professional is likely to result in involuntary commitment to a mental hospital. I've mentioned my suicidality to several mental... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2023, 3:25 pm
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| I went back and read your posts on this thread to get a better idea of you and your situation. You are 26, or maybe 27 by now. It is not hopeless at that age. I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was 29, so anything is possible. I know all about missing out on high school romance, college roman... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 9:15 pm
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| I can't handle never having dated while I'm surrounded by people who have dated. Being a have-not in a world of haves makes me want to kill myself. I'm not accepting it under any circumstances Then what choices do you really have? I certainly understand your frustration and I have been there myself... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 12:16 pm
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| Have you heard of the book "The Menu" by Aaron Cleary? It might be worth checking out. No, but I'm not open to living a life without getting to have a girlfriend and the experiences that come with that relationship. The nature of my issues isn't not having someone to get married to. It's ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2023, 11:31 am
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| I'm trapped in a predicament I see no way out of. I've had it wanting to be able to date,.wanting romantic companionship, wanting validation as a heterosexual man, and having to suffer without any of it, without the ability to get any of it, and without any reason to believe I won't continue to suff... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 60% of men are single but only 34% of women are so… |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2023, 1:40 am
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Sweetleaf wrote: but what is to say those 60% or men are deserving of a gf.
What must men be or do to be deserving of a gf in your view? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2023, 10:28 am
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Replies: 401
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| I'm wondering whether it's best that I retire my account here. All I'm really doing is sharing my misery, and I haven't been considerate of the effect my undistilled honesty might have on people's triggers. I rarely post about anything other than my dating issues, so I'm not being a good site contri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2023, 4:07 am
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| Either I'll find a way to fill the romantic void in my life and be in a better position to continue progressing, or I'll be forced to take my own life to escape the pain I'm in. Given that the intensity of your unfulfilled desires has you caught in a vicious circle, impelling you to take a cart-bef... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2023, 12:29 am
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| Since the onset of puberty, the one thing I've wanted more than anything is to have a romantic partner. There is nothing in this world that I wanted to experience more than a coming-of-age relationship. Despite my fervent interest, I missed out on dating during that stage of my life, and now I'm ne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 25 Feb 2023, 2:00 am
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| I suggested a foreign bride, but I was suggesting joining a website that introduces you to women. I've seen a lot of people in the UK married to foreign brides who would otherwise be single. I suppose it's not the best situation because it probably ends up bad for one or both parties sometimes. I'v... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2023, 3:11 am
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Replies: 401
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| Since the onset of puberty, the one thing I've wanted more than anything is to have a romantic partner. There is nothing in this world that I wanted to experience more than a coming-of-age relationship. Despite my fervent interest, I missed out on dating during that stage of my life, and now I'm nev... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2023, 4:43 pm
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Replies: 401
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| This may sound like an odd question, but what is it about romance that appeals to you? Positive experiences with romantic acceptance and intimacy come with feelings that are more pleasurable than anything else I could hope to experience. I'm not okay living in a world where I don't get to have that... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2023, 4:04 pm
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| I would start trying to lose the pounds first. It's the first step you can make even without a job or girlfriend that will increase your odds of at least getting a girlfriend. I want to, but I don't have much faith in that achieving the results it needs to, as I lost 40kg before and it made no diff... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2023, 6:37 am
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Replies: 401
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| I would start trying to lose the pounds first. It's the first step you can make even without a job or girlfriend that will increase your odds of at least getting a girlfriend. I want to, but I don't have much faith in that achieving the results it needs to, as I lost 40kg before and it made no diff... |
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