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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 2:45 pm
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Nades wrote: The Grand Inquisitor wrote: Nades wrote: What was your job before you quit it? Warehouse work. I didn't want to stay there, and I don't want to go back now that I've left. All manual stuff or with a forklift? If it's all manual then yeah it's not an amazing job for sure.
All manual. Not where I want to be |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 2:33 pm
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Nades wrote: What was your job before you quit it?
Warehouse work. I didn't want to stay there, and I don't want to go back now that I've left. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you could make the rules, what would they be? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 2:31 pm
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| I had an interesting idea about this the other day. I think it would be helpful if we could develop a cultural custom of wearing a subtle piece of jewellery to signify that one is single and looking, similar to how people wear wedding rings to signify that they're married. That way, those of us who ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 2:04 pm
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| Of course I “get it!” Sorry this happened….but no reason to get testy. Is there some religious reason you don’t want to mess with your beard? Personally, I have nothing against it. Your beard can grow again once you’ve trimmed it. How much did they want you to trim it? I can’t help it. I understand... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 2:03 pm
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| The bolded bit :x . That's a sign of a s**t employer. You have evidence that they agreed it was fine. They are in the wrong. Do you have anything like a Citizens Advice charity in your country? Services like this will be able to advise you on your rights, and what steps to take next - that is if yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 1:56 pm
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| Of course I “get it!” Sorry this happened….but no reason to get testy. Your beard can grow again once you’ve trimmed it. How much did they want you to trim it? I can’t help it. I understand “principles”—but if the loss of this opportunity would lead to you feeling hopeless, why not bend a bit when ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 1:03 pm
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| Sorry it didn't work out. :| Thank you The issue is them misleading you by saying it was ok. You wouldn't have taken the job if they said it needs to be cut short. I would challenge them about that. I agree. That's exactly what I said to them, and I showed them the email correspondence I had with t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 10:22 am
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kraftiekortie wrote: You would still be "you," even if you've shaved off your beard.
Again, if you don't get it, you're probably not going to get it |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 9:21 am
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| May I ask why trimming your beard was "not an option" for you such that you would choose to be unemployed, and among other things lose the opportunity to meet people, rather than trim it? Because it is a part of my appearance that I feel very strongly about keeping. Taking a job that cond... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2023, 3:03 am
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| Well I was misled. I was told that my facial hair would not be a problem for the job but on my first day of training, I was told I'd be required to cut my beard short to work there, which was never an option for me. So now not only did the job I was excited about fall through, but I've quit my old j... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2023, 2:42 am
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kraftiekortie wrote: At least you can support yourself….that’s very important.
Glad you got the job!
Thanks |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 8:27 am
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Replies: 390
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| Weight issues seem very common in people with autism. It's just one of the factors that hold a lot of autistics back with dating. Poor employment is another and overall lack of competence as a typical adult is a third. I think these problems are the for the most part possible for an autistic to all... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2023, 7:47 am
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Replies: 390
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| But looks still matter. I also noticed there seems to be considerably more unhappy and ever -frustrated obese people than good looking people. Seriously, why stack the odds against you when you're autisitc by treating your body like crap in addition to having poor social skills? I see it happen all... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to find a partner that doesn't want kids? |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2023, 8:47 am
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| I want someone to put me in a nursing home when I'm old. I wouldn't want to die alone at home and then be found years later as a mummified skeleton. Careful what you wish for. Aged care tends to be a pretty low-paid job, so it has a tendency to attract some people who don't care about doing a good ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 401
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| If I was flushed with opportunities outside of work then I'd take those instead, but that's not my reality. Your new career has likely improved your overall social status at least a little bit, hence might improve your prospects outside of work, at least so some extent. Yes, that's true, but only i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get A Girlfriend If You're An Autistic Man |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2023, 4:37 am
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Replies: 390
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| Not directly, but I have read the whole thread and comments and seems in no uncertain terms it comes down to a lot of guys just won't accept any women in their league rather than threre being an entire lack of datable women. Can you cite a quote or quotes from this thread to substantiate your asser... |
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