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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 11:48 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


I have neither the good looks or the talent of Sean Connory.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 9:05 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


I have put myself out there again and again, and got shot down every single time.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm worthless

 Post subject: Re: I'm worthless
Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 7:25 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 572


enz wrote:
Your not worthless you’ve just met some really horrible people


Even the best people I've met rejected me.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 7:24 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


I'm not talking about "a few shallow girls". I'm talking about every woman I've ever met in my entire life.

If it was only a few people here and there I had trouble with then it would be those people. But when its everyone I've ever known, then the problem is me.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm worthless

 Post subject: I'm worthless
Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 2:55 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 572


I was beaten by my father when I was a toddler. I was raped in my home and on my school. My ex-fiance isolated and gaslighted and abused me psychologically and then dumped me and called me a loser. But no woman has actually genuinely been attracted me even once in my entire life. Everyone knows that...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 21 Nov 2021, 2:47 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


You know what? Just forget the whole thing. In the 20 years I've been an adult, there has never been one girl who has been interested in me. The only time I did have a girlfriend, she was an abusive narcissist who specifically targeted me for my vulnerability, and she told me she never would have da...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 18 Nov 2021, 9:07 am 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


and what about i) what girls are you attracted to? the more stricter your criteria the more limited your options will be I like girls with an oddball or nerdy side to them. I don't often feel that I have much in common with people who are more "typical". Looks wise, I generally prefer gir...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 16 Nov 2021, 7:14 pm 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


Fnord wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
So how do I get a girl to go out with me?
1. Ask her.
2. If she says 'No', find another girl and repeat from Step 1.
3. If she says 'Yes', go out with her.

Simple.


dorkseid wrote:
Okay. So I know this is really basic for most people. But it has eluded me my entire adult life.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 16 Nov 2021, 8:50 am 

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Views: 1,075


2) What type of girls are attracted to you but you don't like? I have had so few women express interest in me to establish any kind of pattern. My ex told me she was only with me because she did think she could do any better at the time. And according to what I've learned about abusive narcissistic...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So how do I get a girl to go out with me?

Posted: 15 Nov 2021, 7:53 pm 

Replies: 25
Views: 1,075


Okay. So I know this is really basic for most people. But it has eluded me my entire adult life. I'm not looking for the love of my life or something that will last long. If that comes along then great, but I'm not setting that as an expectation. Not necessarily looking for a one night stand either,...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm falling apart

 Post subject: Re: I'm falling apart
Posted: 12 Nov 2021, 11:57 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 638


wowiexist wrote:
I am 40 as well and can tell you that it is not too late. I don’t feel like there was anything I could do at 25 that I can’t do now.


I think itsmostly physical activities. Like I could leap down a flight of stairs or run for hours in my 20s.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm falling apart

 Post subject: Re: I'm falling apart
Posted: 12 Nov 2021, 11:53 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 638


Not in Oklahoma. Teachers' pay and benefits are atrocious here. I'm sure they are much better in various cities further north. Which cities have you looked into? Idk. Denver. Columbus. New York City. Cost of living is much higher up north than in Oklahoma. At this point I'm more interested in leavi...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm falling apart

 Post subject: Re: I'm falling apart
Posted: 10 Nov 2021, 8:28 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 638


So, just to clarify, did you want just care and comfort? Or, are you open to suggestions, and if so, what kind? TBH, I don't think any advice or suggestions can help. The only thing that would work at this point is if I could just stop caring, and I just can't. If you’re going to grad school, you c...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm falling apart

 Post subject: Re: I'm falling apart
Posted: 10 Nov 2021, 3:23 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 638


I work with special needs kids in a public school and all I make is $1,200 a month. And would have to use some of that to purchase insurance and it wouldn't be good insurance.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: This just hit me!

 Post subject: Re: This just hit me!
Posted: 09 Nov 2021, 12:02 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 1,399


What I do know is that all the women in attracted to are younger, and none of the women my age appeal to me at all.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm falling apart

 Post subject: Re: I'm falling apart
Posted: 09 Nov 2021, 11:59 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 638


I'm frustrated, but not angry. At least not angry at you or any other people. I appreciate that you're doing your best to help. Part of my frustration is that it feels like nobody can do anything to help me. You're 60, so its natural for you to find women in their 50s attractive. Its not that I can'...
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