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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 2:37 pm
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| Yes, it is possible. I know some people do have short intense friendships. For me, it takes a very long time to become close friends with someone. Usually, the other person sees me as a close friend pretty soon into the friendship. It's different with people I've lived with. The people that became ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 2:33 pm
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funeralxempire wrote: Yes, just look at when people go to cons.
What does that mean? Do you mean 'conventions'? Can you explain a bit more? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it okay to just not have friends? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 38
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| I don't think it's healthy to have no friends, but life in the 21st century seems to have worked out like this for most of us. I think everyone needs a community, which we used to have in the 20th century. I remember I had my parents, my neighbours, their children and a wider community of acquaintan... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is there such a thing as 'friendship flings'? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 1:58 pm
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| What I mean is, do you think it's possible to have a very intense, short-lived friendship? Where you make a friend, you share a lot in a short space of time and feel very close, then suddenly it's over. Similar to short-lived romantic relationships, where there is an intense relationship for a short... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Prince Harry says William attacked him during row |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 99
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| I think he means VICE, the Guardian and the BBC The BBC has become the favourite scapegoat for rightwingers who blame them for injecting woke in all their media, especially historic documentaries. The BBC *used* to be left wing...but now it's in the pocket of the government. They have right wing pe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have YOU been accused of microaggressions?? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 145
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IsabellaLinton wrote: I get accused of having "tone" sometimes even when it's just my sense of droll humour or my inflection.
I get that too. When I'm just stating the obvious/ answering a question/ giving information. I'm not using a tone.  |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do you do if you feel awkwardness with your friend? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 12:49 pm
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Replies: 12
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Silence23 wrote: I also have that problem that I don't know what to do when friends get emotional. So I basically ignore them. Doesn't matter if it's negative or positive emotions.
I know exactly what you mean...  |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: What movies have you seen recently? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2023, 12:47 pm
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Replies: 18,925
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have YOU been accused of microaggressions?? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 145
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| Yes. Apparently my face doesn't do the right thing and when I'm feeling neutral or thoughtful, I look angry or judgmental. When I'm feeling confused, I look like I want people to fvck off. So I'm being microaggressive :roll: No, that's not a "microaggression," at least not in the usual se... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do you do if you feel awkwardness with your friend? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 1:13 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Has she ever expressed to you her own view about the NHS? If so, how do her views differ from yours? Yes, she usually believes the same as me. That's why I was confused. I'm wondering what to do when I feel like friends are drifting away or dropping me, because it happens frequently. How do I resta... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do you do if you feel awkwardness with your friend? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2023, 1:02 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Politics is basically a battlefield. Many normies hate people who aren't in line with their political beliefs. They're on the enemy team. So either don't say anything about political issues, or find friends who are tolerant towards people with different political beliefs. E.g. Libertarians. I mean ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have YOU been accused of microaggressions?? |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 9:37 am
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Replies: 145
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Yes. Apparently my face doesn't do the right thing and when I'm feeling neutral or thoughtful, I look angry or judgmental. When I'm feeling confused, I look like I want people to fvck off.
So I'm being microaggressive |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Things I Don't Get |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 9:35 am
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Replies: 868
Views: 15,815
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| Sometimes when I lie it's because others actually tend to believe my lies easier than when I tell the truth. Perhaps it has something to do with my nonverbal body language or others sometimes refuse to listen to the truth if it's something they do not want to hear or believe :? I'm not really sure ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Things I Don't Get |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 9:29 am
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Replies: 868
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| You are very respectful, so I'll respect you back. I respect everyone to begin with, even if I may not be impartial on some political views, if people are still respectful then I'll like them and continue to be respectful back. :) Thanks, the same to you :heart: That's how decent people should beha... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Prince Harry says William attacked him during row |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 9:21 am
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Replies: 99
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Pepe wrote: I can mock the left-wing press, also. Perhaps I am being partisan when I mock both sides. 
There's a left wing press is there? Where? Where? *looking*  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I keep crushing on fictional characters |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 20 Jan 2023, 9:19 am
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Replies: 184
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funeralxempire wrote: KitLily wrote: I am always getting crushes on 'alien' men from sci fi series e.g. Worf from Star Trek, some of the Babylon 5 alien men e.g. Ta'lon. I think I prefer alien or fantasy men to human men Nothing wrong with preferring fantasy races... just much harder to fulfil. 
Not always. |
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