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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: At the moment, I am fed up

 Post subject: At the moment, I am fed up
Posted: 17 Jan 2023, 11:31 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 198


I am going to use this space to vent because I am in tears because I am so tired of 1. People discover that though we look normal, they find out we are autistic and underestimate what we can or cannot do. One minute we have potential and then the next minute, they shove us to the side for others 2. ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Am I missing out on life if I don't lots of friends ?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 7:11 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 293


One of the things I've probably touched upon is that I seem to think I should have a large group of friends that I seem to think everyone else has and gone out with them a lot, had parties with them deep into the night, gone on holiday with them somewhere, etc and that if you don't have those types...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 12:59 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


Hi. What you expressed in your writing was that you have a pattern of choosing your pet's needs over your friend's.[/quote] Needs > Wants The cat needs to breath or it will die. The friend isn't going to die if someone doesn't attend her dinner party. We live in a culture that is beginning to worsh...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 14 Jan 2023, 12:21 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


It’s not just pet health emergencies either. What if it was a family member who ended up in the hospital or you for that matter? She going to guilt trip for that? Additionally, she lives 2 hours away from you and gas prices are not cheap. While I do understand that she was looking forward to having ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 7:55 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


The one holding the dinner party is overreacting and that’s a red flag.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 7:53 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


The one holding the dinner party is overreacting and that’s a red flag.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 12:42 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


Thank you for reminding me that she used you as her chauffeur, I forgot that part and how she complained about everything. Again, like with the lady who made you feel bad because she didn't get her way, she's also immature, controlling, and entitled. However, maybe the problem lies in the fact that ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 12:04 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


SummerandSmoke, being that I am a cat owner myself who I love dearly, I understand. As I said, you didn't do anything wrong. Your "Friend" sounds like she seems to think the world owes her a living and I feel sorry for her as I don't know where she got her attitude of entitlement. As for y...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 11:34 am 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


Miss Mary,

I accept that this is how you feel and I’m happy to consider your wishes and preferences, and we at wrong planet would like the same from you.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 11:11 am 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


Being offended? None taken. However, you like to hear yourself talk don't you? :lol: As for SummerandSmoke, she is other, isn't she? On the other hand, you were well aware that this is a public forum with lots of other points of view right? Therefore, we can agree to disagree. Last but not least, Su...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 10:12 am 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


people > animals Other factors being equal, yes. But, in this case, other factors were not equal. Aren't life-threatening health crises, whether of people or of beloved animals, more urgent matters than a dinner party? Hi. What you expressed in your writing was that you have a pattern of choosing y...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why do I keep attracting such selfish friends?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 10:09 am 

Replies: 39
Views: 913


I read your post and I am so sorry that the second woman treated you like a piece of trash because you couldn't make a couple of events. Regardless of how old she is, you sound like you are more mature. For example, her guilt-tripping you with rejection because she didn't get her way is pretty child...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to avoid Dating a Narcissist

Posted: 10 Jan 2023, 1:48 pm 

Replies: 65
Views: 4,525


There was a story that ended up in the news that also caught the attention of crime series which involved a narcissist being at the center of a deadly love triangle. -The situation involved two teenage girls who went to the same highschool and both dated the same guy which got to a point that the tw...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: My boss yelled at me today

Posted: 09 Jan 2023, 2:39 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 663


Unfortunately, I agree. As much as I'd like to stick it to him, I do want to find other employment first. I put in my first application today. Personally I suspect it'll be quiet around this time and pick up in January. It's been difficult being back in work. He called me a waste of money the other...

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: I'm autistic and I feel trapped

Posted: 09 Jan 2023, 2:21 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 406


I didn't see it until after I posted in the general autism area... I'm an autistic person living with his parents, even though I should be out on my own. My mother seems to hate me. She tells me I'm an ungrateful, disrespectful, needy, whiny so-and-so when my father tries to help and she wants me t...

 Forum: School and College Life   Topic: Bullying

 Post subject: Re: Bullying
Posted: 08 Jan 2023, 3:07 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 7,320


I'm bullied all the bloody time at school and the teachers do f all about it. My dad doesn't care to help anymore. Was anyone else bullied or are you bullied still? How do you cope with it? Is there anything I can do to make things easier? Hey, yes I was bullied at school in HS and Jr high but not ...
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