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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is your biggest struggle with Aspergers or Autism? |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2017, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 2,560
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| while underage: junior high school bullying while overage: plenty of morons had the nerve to fire my worthless corpse. they told me "it's not a good fit." what's not a good fit, that i was not cisgender or neurotypical? both: can't unwind/relax, extremely uptight, edgy, not having precious... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Isn't harder being an aspie adult than a child? |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2017, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 955
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| junior high school was the worst. being held captive, for hours each day, 5 days a week, in small rooms, with 30 other 8th graders was a nightmare. they verbally teased me. and i did not get diagnosed til age 21. they also physically assaulted me. at that school, in that year, the school's policy wa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you ever feel boring? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2017, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 1,736
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| not only do i feel boring, but i am boring. :mrgreen: :ninja: :jester: :jester: :heart: :nerdy: :skull: and i am also weird. i ain't normal. what one person labels as "boring" someone else labels as exciting. (fine). however, i am boring, even to myself. but whatever. "boring" is... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you like the sound of your voice? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2017, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 893
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| at least two morons have had the nerve to tell me that i sound like a boy. that was before i took testosterone to transition from female to male. no, i hate the sound of my voice. it does not sound manly or normal enough. voice sounds monotonous the other thing is that sometimes i have a hard time t... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Do you ever wonder what its like to be a girl? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2017, 10:16 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 6,439
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| there are advantages and disadvantages of being a boy and a girl. girls get raped more often than boys. girls have to deal with their periods. girls get sexually harassed more than boys do. boys get called "guys" when they are in junior high school. cisgender females get called "girls... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: tell us of your horror stories with psychiatrists... |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2017, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 3,566
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| no "horror stories". thus far. however, i have had psychologists, licensed clinical social workers, and similar professionals say and do things that i found condescending, unprofessional, and insulting. for example: the 10th grade school psychologist had the nerve to tell me that the middl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What not to do at your first psychologist appointment? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2017, 9:44 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 6,583
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| i was referred to a psychologist by a local psychiatrist. this appointment is not the assessment but is supposed to be to give the doctor an idea of what tests, if any, to have me take at a subsequent appointment. not only do i not like the very long drive there, nor meeting new people, nor being sc... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate my life I want to die |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2017, 9:24 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 548
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| get a psychologist. if you do not have insurance, go to a community health clinic and ask them about where to get psychological counseling. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Pursuing an Adult Diagnosis |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2017, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 579
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| Hello! This is a topic I've wanted to discuss with others for a long time, but have never been able to do so. I've suspected that I may be autistic since I was very young, around 10 or 11, but my parents did not support the idea of me seeing a psychologist for fear of it harming my chances of gettin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else tend to do nothing all day? |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2017, 11:12 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 2,686
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| Other than go to doctors appointments, I just sit around all day. Too sick to do anything else. My life is extremely boring and uninteresting. :roll: ___________________________________________________________________________ short fat bald ugly man says: with the exception of going on walks, grocer... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My parents won't let me get an Autism diagnosis |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2017, 10:03 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 599
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| My parents, and basically every single teacher I've ever had, had said that they're 100% sure I have Autism. But my parents won't me get get a diagnosis. I feel like I'd get a lot more support (I have none at the moment) if I had a diagnosis and I feel like it would be good if we had an explanation ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Biggest Pet Peeve |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2017, 9:48 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,858
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| In no particular order I hate; snoring, loud or sloppy chewing, burping, and other unpleasant noises. Also dislike being poked or jabbed, my partner throwing themselves at me for a hug or other physical contact, people resting their head on my shoulder (so uncomfortable!), being nagged, obnoxious pe... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: sh***y birthday |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2017, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 732
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| "I gave up celebrating my birthday years ago. I'd rather people forget about me, my feelings, and what little miserable contributions I made to this world. I'd rather that people think I don't exist." yes, i am 34 years old. for a long time now, i have not told anyone when my birthday was.... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: why do i feel incomplete? |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2017, 10:47 pm
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Replies: 1
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| okay, i feel incomplete too. (fine) but not necessarily for the same reasons as you. (fine). so, of course, i do not know you, i ain't psychic, i ain't telepathic. (fine) but the reasons why i (suspect that i) feel incomplete: :jester: ain't got no precious lil "friends". almost everyone t... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: sh***y birthday |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2017, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 732
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| Today's my birthday, and it's been the worst birthday in memory. I shouldn't be surprised - I'm more socially isolated now than I can ever remember being. I wasn't popular growing up, but I always had my groups of friends. In college I got pretty social, and when I was in the Peace Corps I instantly... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: Foods from A-Z |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2017, 11:12 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 618
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