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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women Are Rarely Direct With You About Not Being Interested |
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Posted: 06 May 2021, 10:22 pm
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Replies: 124
Views: 4,100
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| If I'm not being direct in rejecting someone it's because I'm trying to 'look after' something. Like his feelings or myself from something like being verbally abused. But I'm surprised that there is no "allure" attached to a man who stays in the background, and just observes. I wouldn't sa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to kiss me |
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Posted: 01 May 2021, 1:44 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 1,081
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| Of course it's perfectly normal for them to not want to kiss you. I find it bizarre that your friends would be asking random girls at a party to kiss you in the first place. If one of my kids told me that some people at a party were trying to get them to kiss one of their friends, I would ask them ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Gluten and lactose problems in autism? |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,438
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| I'm thinking we might have to keep a bit of cheese in the diet (which she seems to tolerate in small quantities as it's lower lactose than milk)! Those of us with lactose in tolerance typically have no problem with aged cheeses. There are various 'milk' products that can still be digested with the ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Height and Weight |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 9:35 pm
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Replies: 247
Views: 34,689
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You can see my age and gender under my avatar
Height: 5'10"
Weight: varying from 143lbs to 147lbs currently |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Gluten and lactose problems in autism? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2021, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Gut issues are fairly common with Autism. But in the case of lactose in tolerance I wouldn't particularly link that to Autism. I am lactose intolerant as is my mother, and my grandfather was too. Its in my family so even if I didn't have Aspergers I would still be lactose intolerant. The reality is ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When you see yourself naked in a mirror, what do you think? |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2021, 9:20 pm
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Replies: 145
Views: 3,200
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| "Well that's a hell of a lot better than it was last year" |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: To tell or not to tell? |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2021, 9:16 pm
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Replies: 26
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| I don't just up and volunteer the information, but I don't do that about a lot of things. I will tell them if it's relevant to the conversation/topic at hand though. I don't feel a reason to hide it, but I don't feel a reason to let anyone I talk to or deal with to be informed of it either. There ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting really tired of this. |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2021, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 205
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| Well this rather neatly explains why I'm awake with some beer & techno at 2:30 when I should be resting up for a meeting. I have too much to do around machines to know when my brain will really be free to catch up with my non-existent social life. Later folks... I've reached a point where I wil... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Little known positive facts about myself |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2021, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 272
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I think you're doing some good work trying to focus on good things about yourself and life.
Keep it up  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Seriously struggling with mental health - please help me! |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2021, 8:39 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 620
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| Do you have a therapist? You really could use one. Your issues are stemming from things that you really need to process out, anything else is essentially going to be a band aid; because really this isn't just about this girl. Technically you can to to process it out by yourself but given that you're... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dreaming About My Ex-Boyfriend |
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Posted: 10 Apr 2021, 8:07 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 315
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| Dreams about the ex usually indicate you're missing something about the relationship. It's not necessarily about him, he's just the face your brain put on the thing you're missing/desiring I've tried to stay friends with one of my ex's but he wasn't capable and he drove me nuts. I suspect there coul... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting really tired of this. |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2021, 8:52 pm
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Replies: 205
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| I guess I was writing about more of an impulse than any particular reality. I know someone who got caught up in the hype as you said, I'd be lying if I said anyone else on Earth really knows me at the level she does but what does that mean to anybody these days? Truly it doesn't seem like it means ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting really tired of this. |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2021, 3:36 am
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Replies: 205
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| Are you asking the mods to delete the thread or that dude's post? *carries on anyway* I'm kind of doubtful that I'd want anything to do with relationships as people define them these days anyway. The way people talk about this stuff like I'm not even in the room is not only a turn off, it's legitima... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: ex partners cyber stalking, could you forgive? |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2021, 3:59 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 614
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| If they're one of my ex's I stopped trusting them already. For them to then engage in something like that is insult to injury. How I would handle it would depend on the degree of what was going on. I did have an ex who kind of did some of this but the situation was pretty harmless to me, just annoyi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling depressed due to being single at 30 |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2021, 8:29 pm
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Replies: 171
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| Anyway, since this thread popped up again I figured I/someone should say that the OP, Leon, succeeded in getting a girlfriend last year. And last I knew was in the process to moving where she lives to be with her. That's awesome :D I didn't know this thread was that old. Thanx for the update. We do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which Age Range do You Find the Most Sexually Attractive |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2021, 9:33 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 5,631
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| The age ranges don't really work for me. For starters I'm not particularly sexually attracted to anyone just based on looks. I'll be like "yeah they are good looking", or "Wow they have a great bod". But that's the extent of it; meaning I have no desire to kiss or go to bed with ... |
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