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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 19 Jan 2023, 11:28 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


A perpetual absence of romance and romantic acceptance ensures that my quality of life is low enough to where I don't want to live. No, this desire will never cease to haunt me until it is satisfied. Having romance could compensate for other negative elements of life, but other positive elements of...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 19 Jan 2023, 10:48 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


How did the job interview go? I wouldn’t be surprised if the casino was looking for a “man of personality.” I got the job!! Despite having fairly conservative grooming standards, they're fine with me keeping my beard long, provided I keep it neat, trimmed and well-groomed (which I would anyway). Th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Chivalry is dead.

 Post subject: Re: Chivalry is dead.
Posted: 18 Jan 2023, 12:17 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,308


It really depends what you mean by chivalry. It would be unreasonable for women to expect both the benefits of modern era equality, and the benefits of unilateral special treatment as they received from men in the past when they didn't have equal rights. Chivalry could also refer to being a generall...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 17 Jan 2023, 8:01 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


I feel like I'm just screwed. Destined to suffer with this overwhelming desire for romance and intimacy that I lack the means to fulfill. Is there some way to quash that desire? Some way to either be happy about something you already have or be happy about something you can realistically obtain (li...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 17 Jan 2023, 7:47 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


You probably have some form of “inner” OCD (unwanted intense intrusive thoughts). Maybe, but I think it's probably just the way my aspergers has manifested itself in conjunction with the situation I find myself in. My brain has a tendency to ruminate, especially about things that are important or p...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Autistic male vs female experience with romantic success?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 9:26 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 748


But, yes, it does seem that autistic heterosexual men tend to have greater difficulty than autistic heterosexual and bisexual women with finding a date. I think the main reason is that modern Western dating customs still require the man to take the initiative. Thus, at the very beginning of a relat...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 9:09 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


Good luck on your job interview. Thanks KK. I doubt I'll get the job though. I've applied to be a casino dealer. I'm big on card games, I'm good with maths and I'm very much a night owl, so it would be a really good fit if I can get it, but I get the feeling that they probably won't be tolerant of ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 9:05 am 

Replies: 69
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To explain what's going on in my head so people get it: 1. Something triggers me to think about dating (or my mind goes there on its own) 2. I feel overcome with grief and sadness over my lack of dating history, and petrified of what my life will look like in the future if things don’t change. 3. I ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 8:05 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


Mona Pereth wrote:
Here I posted a list of depression support groups/resources. Hopefully you might find something helpful here.

Thanks for the link. Are those international?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 8:04 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


Why don't you improve anything else you have control over first? I try, but the depression I'm dealing with inhibits my efforts, and I have a challenging relationship with food. Food is one of my coping mechanisms unfortunately, and the weed use further encourages me to overeat and eat the wrong fo...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 1:19 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


Accept that life isn't fair and you don't always get what you want in life. If you want to be a pro basketball player but you're 5 ft 5 and slow twitch dominant, tough luck. The only thing you can do is to live life with the cards you've been dealt. I'm not accepting this. If I can't get a girlfrie...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 13 Jan 2023, 5:00 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


I guess I can't really be surprised that nobody responded to my last post. There probably isn't anything anyone could say to make me feel better short of offering a pathway to find a woman whom I could forge a romantic connection with. I don't know how that's supposed to happen when my confidence is...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 10 Jan 2023, 9:24 pm 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


I'm struggling so much. I've called multiple different hotlines over the past few months and I never feel better after the conversations. I generally end up feeling worse because they can't help me. I feel so powerless, helpless and unwanted. I'm so emotionally distraught about not being able to dat...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 06 Jan 2023, 9:24 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


A reality check on dating apps: https://m.youtube.com/shorts/HJsC8NiaP_M?feature=share Yeah, dating apps can be pretty brutal. If I tried online dating again, I'd be trying with very low expectations, and probably trying to appeal to a niche of women who would appreciate my qualities rather than tr...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 06 Jan 2023, 9:15 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


Maybe you need a new hobby or two? I would suggest that you explore a variety of recreational activities that are known to attract at least as many women as men, and see if any of those activities strike your fancy. (Note: Do NOT spend a lot of time on a group activity that you do NOT enjoy, for th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What Am I Even Supposed To Do To?

Posted: 06 Jan 2023, 8:33 am 

Replies: 69
Views: 3,001


How to get sex and loving female companionship. This worked for me. WARNING: do your research and be honest to the other person. Join a church. "But I'm an atheist!" you say? Not a problem. Most people think "church" means "evangelical". Those are just the noisy extrem...
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