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18 Nov 2022, 8:26 am

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My home. It's a mess and it's been getting progressively worse for the last 8 years. It's getting the to stage where I have to move stuff around to do anything. Want a bath? Have to move all the stuff that's in the bath somewhere else before you can do that. Want to play piano? Okay, but you'll have to dig it out from under the piles of crap that you moved when you wanted a bath. Want to sit down somewhere? Good luck with that, there's usually space on the stairs.

I feel so bad for my kid having to grow up in this place. I just can't seem to get a grip on it. So much stuff needs to be sold or otherwise removed from our house and garden. I get overwhelmed by it and another day passes by and more stuff accumulates. I just want to burn it down and start again.
I can relate to this. I have to move stuff to make room for other things whenever necessary. I often procrastinate on doing things because the preparation (moving stuff to make room) feels like too much effort. I can never invite anyone to my place because it's so embarrassingly cluttered/messy.

Does your child say anything about it? I wonder how he/she feels about it. Maybe you can start removing things together? I was told by a therapist to get into the habit of throwing only a few things away at a time and gradually reduce the mess.



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18 Nov 2022, 9:49 am

Anxiety.


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18 Nov 2022, 12:33 pm

Waking up at 4 in the morning.


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18 Nov 2022, 7:45 pm

One of my managers purposely calls me by my birthname instead of my actual name all of the time. The other two managers call me my actual name just fine, and I know him not using it is purposeful because I was introduced to him with that name and then he made an effort to switch once he found the other one out. I dislike him for a lot of reasons and this is one of them.



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18 Nov 2022, 9:09 pm

Instant coffee tastes like schit as usual.



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18 Nov 2022, 10:31 pm

It was the last day at my clubhouse for one of my favourite staff members. I'm surprised that I didn't cry. I was jacked on an energy drink, though. After all, I was up at 4.


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18 Nov 2022, 11:44 pm

I need more sleep. :(


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Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

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18 Nov 2022, 11:45 pm

temp1234 wrote:
Instant coffee tastes like schit as usual.


I am unhappy you say that.
I like it.


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Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,



Also, as George Carlin said, "I have no stake in the outcome." I'll stick around for the comedy.

"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet."
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)
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19 Nov 2022, 9:34 am

Anxiety


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19 Nov 2022, 10:53 am

That thing where you make yourself emotionally vulnerable thinking it will help a situation but it backfires and you realise you're really just a fool who never learns, because no one else ever gets vulnerable in return and it leaves you full of resentment toward your own idiocy for not knowing it would happen again since it always happens again and your life is full of pathetic attempts at comforting others and making apologies for their mistakes, even though they don't really give a shite about you and you won't get an apology in return.


Is there a name for that?



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20 Nov 2022, 5:11 am

The fact that I cannot go out and play in the snow.



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20 Nov 2022, 6:32 am

I got left out and misgendered so much yesterday and now I feel really, really dysphoric and want to cry.



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20 Nov 2022, 7:03 am

^ You were surrounded by a bunch of dickheads. :evil:
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20 Nov 2022, 9:16 am

Anxiety


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20 Nov 2022, 10:18 am

Saw a TV show with a character that was possibly autistic. My mom also watched it.
It made me anxious, like reminding her i am possibly autistic as well. I think she knows but will never acknowledge it. I feel hopeless in this world sometimes like in prison.



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21 Nov 2022, 12:02 am

I felt depressed yesterday (it is after midnight now, but I haven't slept so it still feels like today....)