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Foxmanrox
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 20 Sep 2021
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 4
Location: San jose California

22 Sep 2021, 12:35 am

Pros:
- i love media so i can recommend movies, shows, and music,
- video game nights can be co op or i watch my partner play games
- i can cook
- im willing to try other hobbies my partner likes

Cons:
- i can get annoying quoting stuff randomly
- i would like time to play single player games (though i dont mind being watched)
- i get serious fomo if my partner watches something i want to watch
- being on the spectrum
- i hate making suggestions on what to do because even a "no" can break my spirit



Skjald
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

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Joined: 25 Apr 2021
Gender: Male
Posts: 27
Location: Europe

22 Sep 2021, 9:02 am

Pro:
+ I’m honest, loyal and have a strong sense of justice and fairness
+ I’m actually, truly monogamous
+ I’m reliable and responsible
+ I’m a free spirit, I think for myself and don’t blindly follow the rules and social conventions
+ You can have deep and meaningful discussions and philosophise with me for hours
+ I am protective about the people I care about. I’ll stand up for you and stand and fight with or for you.
+ Passionate for worthwhile causes
+ I’m in a package together with a lot of random facts you never knew you wanted to know and a ton of great music that I will definitely introduce you to when something in a conversation or that just happened reminded me of a song
+ While my mind is prone to the logical and rational and I am a systematic and analytic thinker, I have a thing for epic and romantic aesthetics so that part is not lacking and I’ve got the best of both sides I guess
+ I absolutely don’t care for consumerism, status symbols and hierarchies. I care about who you are as a human being not about what you own!
+ I’m a dog person!
+ I love to be in nature, to see new cities and historic sides and to be active in general
+ I am accepting of people who don’t fit the norm, I usually get along better with people who don’t fit the norm and I will accept you for who you really, authentically are and I want to be accepted as my authentic self as well
+ I want to be your best friend as well as romantic partner and will be there for you and always listen
+ I don’t smoke and don’t drink alcohol
+ I am perfectly childfree and I never ever want to have children

Cons:
- I can be cynical bordering on misanthropic
- I am sarcastic and my humour can be pretty morbid
- I am not that emotionally expressive and can seem aloof or uncaring even though I am not
- I am fairly assertive and opinionated and come across as too harsh and headstrong sometimes without noticing
- I am occasionally involuntarily tactless (it has gotten better throughout the years but still)
- I don’t do small-talk at all
- It’s difficult to gain my trust
- I need lots and lots of personal space and probably also more time for myself than other men
- Sensory hypersensitivity issues that need to be accommodated for and taken into consideration
- Shallow relationships bore me and aren’t worth it to me, a meaningful and deep connection on a personal and intellectual level is required.
- Looks don’t get you anywhere! While I recognise when someone looks aesthetically pleasing this doesn’t get me interested in the person at all. Saying something intelligent, humorous or sharing an interest is what makes me want to interact with someone.
- I don’t like hook-up culture and I will never be open to polygamy or an open-relationship.
- I write very long messages, I talk a lot if the conversation is interesting and I will definitely cut your word without even realising it, which isn’t ideal I know, but it also makes me tolerant for when you cut my word accidentally as well. So I think that’s fair enough x’D
- I strongly dislike cats and kids.


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- Arthur Schopenhauer


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xxZeromancerlovexx
Veteran
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Joined: 24 Jul 2010
Age: 28
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 3,717
Location: On my butt watching reality tv

22 Sep 2021, 1:21 pm

Pros:
I don’t like fancy dates
I love fantasy movies and video games
I’m not clingy

Cons:
I’m not a traditional romantic
I’d rather be impressed by my own clothes on a date than impress you
I’m very possessive of my personal belongings (including my consoles)
I can’t have kids


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-Jim Henson


Foxmanrox
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 20 Sep 2021
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 4
Location: San jose California

23 Sep 2021, 1:01 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
Pros:
I don’t like fancy dates
I love fantasy movies and video games
I’m not clingy

Cons:
I’m not a traditional romantic
I’d rather be impressed by my own clothes on a date than impress you
I’m very possessive of my personal belongings (including my consoles)
I can’t have kids


Ill be honest most of that i can relate to.



Whirlwind Salt
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 16 Oct 2021
Gender: Male
Posts: 3
Location: Houston, Texas

18 Oct 2021, 8:10 pm

Pros
-Polite, quiet, good listener
-Mostly independent, with my own income
-Have a car, even if it's a junker
-Open minded, up to try anything
-Nice hair, according to people
-Can cook, love baking
-Sucker for craft candles and soap, so things smell nice
-Conscious about weight loss, so if you need someone to talk you out of that chocolate I'm there

Cons
-Aspergers+ADHD Wombo Combo
-Overweight( Obese at time of writing)
-Not exactly manly in the traditional sense
-A lot of my hobbies happen in front of a screen
-Social Anxiety(Meaning the quiet part may just be me too scared to say anything)
-Even when I try to put things politely it may come out more blunt than intended.
-Indecisive
- Live with my parents.