Do you miss someone right now?

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11 May 2021, 9:38 am

Yes I miss a loved one. We were close at college, and promised to meet up after university. But we met at New year's eve when we both came home for Xmas holidays and had a night together. We saw each other briefly a few times over the next year and had a few other brief nights together. But I felt like she was controlling me and playing too many games.
Looking back we shouldn't have even tried to have a long distance relationship. For two years I didn't see her even though I thought of her most days. I saw her when out with my friends and I asked her what she wanted from me and she couldn't answer me. I was being horrible but I was fed up and needed to express myself. This was th elast time I saw her. I messaged her a year later apologising and telling her how much I admired her. She asked me to go on holiday with her. But I thought it was too far too soon. She didn't want to meet for a coffee or go for a walk.
Ten years later I still think about her most days. She probably was the love of my life, but things didn't seem right to me and she seemed more interested in putting pictures of us together on Facebook.
Oh well, it took me so long to forget about her and move on with my life doing what I wanted to do.
But yeah now the dust has settled and I'm older and wiser I can see that everything was so intense, all of the pent up sexual energy I just couldn't cope with it.



IsabellaLinton
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23 May 2021, 11:58 pm

I miss someone quite a bit. They were a trusted friend, and we had a strong mutual-respect. They offered to help with a significant problem I was having. After that they essentially ended the friendship and ghosted me. I feel like I was shamed for having a problem, even though they offered to help me and they said it was no problem. Every now and then I feel very hurt about it, and I miss them. The rest of the time I feel misunderstood, almost like I was set up to be humiliated.

It's been five months. Hard to believe. I just keep on keeping on, but I miss the person they once were. I gave up putting myself in their circle, because it was too freaking weird to be blatantly ignored.

I normally guilt myself about lost friendships but I'm not taking the blame this time. I did nothing wrong. If I'm not good enough in their opinion, I suppose it's their loss and not mine.



Lilyana
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27 May 2021, 3:37 pm

Yes, I miss him very much. It's only been 2 weeks since I ended it. It was difficult.



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27 May 2021, 6:17 pm

I wish I could properly “miss” anyone, I just don’t seem to have that ability anymore and it makes me feel guilty when I’m reminded of that, even though I know it isn’t because I don’t care or anything :(


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16 Jun 2021, 5:00 am

I miss my friends who I haven’t seen in person since 2019 (they were all planning to come over to celebrate my sons first birthday but the lockdown started for us a few days before) I miss my friend Travis mom who died back in October suddenly. She was an amazing woman and was always trying to get us all together for stuff. I miss my ex boyfriend who took his life in 2016. it will be six years since he died next in two weeks. We hadn’t dated or seen each other in years but he was the first man I thought I could have a life with, and the only one who came back after breaking up with me multiple times. These trying times make me wonder if I had tried harder to make it work would he still be around. I miss my grampa, it’s taken 10 years but I’m finally over his death and still have fond memories of. And finally I miss my partner. Although he’s still here in the same house with me, he’s not the man I fell in love with anymore. He’s not even the same man he was before the lock down. I feel like I lost the love of my life the father of my son my future husband and my best friend of 17 years all in the space of a year while I was recovering from and suffering from both kareakatonis and healing from my caesarean. I’ve finally recovered from two very painful surgeries that will probably effect me the rest of my life to see that he decided to move on. I don’t know what the future will hold for me now. I had hope before, now I’m just trying to get through each and every horrible day of work



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26 Jun 2021, 1:50 pm

I miss my cat, she passed away two weeks ago and I feel very sad about it



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12 Jul 2021, 3:31 pm

:heart: Yes. I miss my baby, my sweetheart. He is the most adorable, kind, caring, dominant, sexy, & loving man I know. He has treated me with the utmost respect, tenderness, & never ever made fun of me in any way that would harm or hurt me. I truly love him so much. I can't wait until I see him again, as we are currently separated, in two different states. heart: