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andyfzr
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07 May 2017, 3:36 pm

Hi, I'm Andy 50 years young and looking to meet a nice girl similar to me. I've been struggling with depression for the last few years mainly brought on by loneliness as I live on my own in the High Peak area of the UK. I'm not good at talking to people till I get to know them especially girls. I'm into all sorts of things and tend to get binges on hobbies then move on to something new. I'm fairly fit and like camping and hiking. I used to do a lot of rock climbing with living in the Peak District. I like cars and motorbikes and enjoy working on cars as I'm quite a keen mechanic. I have a part time job at a care home doing all the maintenance as I've worked in the building trade most of my life so this job is ideal for me. I enjoy binging on films and sci fi and playing around with computers. I think I need to meet someone similar to myself rather than the NTs that I've dated before and has always ended badly with them not understanding me. Even if its only chatting on here or IM, it would be nice to have someone to talk to, I'm just not very good at introducing myself to people due to my intense shyness around people which just seems to make me look ignorant when I'm out and about.



___toasty
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09 May 2017, 1:15 am

I’m 27 years old, straight, white, female, 5’6, 140 lbs, and slim. I don’t smoke, either. I don’t have any tattoos because I have a phobia of needles, but that still didn’t prevent me from being pre-med in undergrad. I live near Seattle in Washington, so a long-distance relationship would be okay since almost everyone here is from a different place. I have a degree in cellular and molecular biology besides a degree in Spanish, and I’m in school again for another fancy piece of paper (it’s just a certificate this time). I dye my hair random colors when bored, drink too much coffee, sleep too little, stay up too late, act really silly, and laugh too much (maybe).

Interests: animals, science, books, movies, music, food, coffee



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29 May 2017, 6:25 pm

Hello, I am a 25 year old female. I'm looking for someone to get to know on a deeper level rather than just the shallow interactions of the real world. I love to chat about meaningful topics that are interesting. I can generally talk about anything and everything as long as the conversations are intelligent and interesting. I love humor too, and I enjoy laughing every day.

A few words to describe me -- highly intelligent, cute, funny, confident, interesting, open minded, and unique (been told that one by a friend in a good way).

Now that you know a few things that describe me, I would like if the person is similar to me in those aspects as well. Of course, no one is perfect, but I know that the concept "opposites attract" is a myth; it's the similarities in people that foster longer lasting bonds.

The reason why I'm interested in getting to know you more is because I have an interest in hearing about people's stories. I believe everyone has their own unique stories and experiences that they go through in their lifetime, and I'd like to hear about it and find a common ground. I'm non-judgemental and quite open minded to most things due to my upbringing myself. I'm not one to judge others quickly, but it doesn't mean I'm not opinionated myself. I'm a critical thinker and can hold my own in a conversation.

In conclusion, if you're intrigued by this post, think that we are compatible (even if it's just to be a friend), or is interested in sharing your life story with me, please send me a PM. If you do, please do let me know that you've read what I've wrote and I'd appreciate if you write a long PM rather than a short "hi" because those messages will get nowhere. As for a good conversation starter and question from me to you, let me know: What do you think makes for a long relationship and how do you go about maintaining it?

Thanks for reading my post, looking forward to reading your PMs.



JamiLynn
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01 Jun 2017, 11:30 pm

Hi, my name is Jami! I'm a 28-year-old female who's been diagnosed with Asperger's when I was 11. I'm a quirky/goofy/silly kind of girl, but I'm also sweet and kind. I enjoy drawing/doodling, fine art, ceramics, symphonic/orchestral music, comics, some manga & anime, animals, comedy/humor (especially memes), knitting and crochet, and food! I also enjoyed my fair share of RPG games until I put my Nintendo systems down a while age. I have a bachelor's degree in fine art, and right now I'm pursuing a master's in library and information science to be a youth librarian - and boy, I've got a long way to go, but I'm determined to get that degree!

I'm looking for a really nice guy who likes me for my personality, and respects and shares my conservative values. I may be a little awkward and shy during our first conversations, but our relationship - and the number of laughs - will grow the more we open up and get to know each other. You can send me a PM any time! :D



ASNerd
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07 Jun 2017, 11:24 am

BaneBear wrote:
Why only south east? I live in the northeast part of the USA, New england. The boston area


Same. I live in RI but there's no northeast section.



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08 Jun 2017, 7:27 am

ASNerd wrote:
Same. I live in RI but there's no northeast section.


The split threads didn't really seem to catch on, maybe there was a NE one but it got buried? Most people still post in the old "Eligible Odd-Bods!" thread, or this one, or both.

Doesn't hurt to try your luck.


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16 Jul 2017, 6:42 am

A lot of girls my age here who can be friends with me, even though this isn't the forum for that!!

I thought I'd put my profile in this thread... guess I didn't.



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01 Sep 2017, 1:11 pm

___toasty wrote:
I’m 27 years old, straight, white, female, 5’6, 140 lbs, and slim. I don’t smoke, either. I don’t have any tattoos because I have a phobia of needles, but that still didn’t prevent me from being pre-med in undergrad. I live near Seattle in Washington, so a long-distance relationship would be okay since almost everyone here is from a different place. I have a degree in cellular and molecular biology besides a degree in Spanish, and I’m in school again for another fancy piece of paper (it’s just a certificate this time). I dye my hair random colors when bored, drink too much coffee, sleep too little, stay up too late, act really silly, and laugh too much (maybe).

Interests: animals, science, books, movies, music, food, coffee


I'd totally be interested in you if I wasn't already taken, lol.



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03 Sep 2017, 5:32 pm

Meh, I totally forgot about these kinds of threads.

To put myself back out:

I'm 37, male, and from the mid-west US.

My main interests include philosophy, spirituality, analyzing politics, making music, and practicing martial arts. For work I got my degree in accounting but found there weren't many opportunities for advancement, found out that I like programming more, so now I'm programming .Net and Angular (Javascript).

Some of the things that are important to me in a partner, and reciprocally finding a partner who'd be happy:

1) Someone whose okay with someone being a big music-head. I've been a dedicated drum n bass head for more than half my life now, I also have plenty of other electronic genres where I find what I like as well as classic hip hop and various rock/metal of the last 30 years. I also am a bit of a gear-head, ie. I do like my synthesizer modules and studio monitors.

2) Someone whose politically either slightly right of center, center, possibly slightly left of center, but any which way much more into thinking for herself rather than subscribing to dogmatism (ie. easy script). I tend to enjoy following what's going on in the world around me and while I'm not obsessed with talking about it I don't think I could relate to someone who's either dedicated 'right' or 'left' in such a manner that her skills for nuance are absorbed by tautology. Especially it would be great to be with someone whose even different from me in her thinking but loves constructive debate and engaging new ideas of one type or another.

3) Admittedly, when it comes to philosophy and religion, I'm something of an abstract pagan and I've probably spent far more time reading up on western religion, philosophy, etc. than most people would find healthy. I'm in a couple Hermetic orders, I'm enjoying what I read these days on chaos magic, I do practice ritual occasionally and would like to be with someone whose either at worst indifferent or at best interested herself in what that's all about. As far as what I 'believe' its more of a practice and experiment than a belief, and admittedly most of it is about self-influence and improving myself in ways that I'd have little basis or scaffolding for doing otherwise. I don't discount the idea that thought and intention can move the world, just that I'd really only want it to be thought and intention with integrity so I figure cleaning up my own room (yep - that's a Peterson-ism), my own house, and my own basement is a big part of all of that. Even for as non-dogmatic as much of that is you don't necessarily need to believe anything I do, just that if you think I either slept through science class and need a Dawkins intervention or believe I'm headed for eternal damnation - I might not be your catch.


With that last point and how I'd deal with parenting (ie. not having an institution to hand off), I do think that children are the world in 30 or 40 years, of every generation, and that adults have an obligation to instill in them as much integrity and as much critical-thinking capacity as possible. I feel like I need to give that caveat because a lot of people have a way of thinking that such things can only happen in the social structure of an organized religion, bible school, PSR, etc.. I'm not absolutely closed to a son or daughter doing that even if for nothing more than Western Civilization literacy (to that extent if you don't understand the bible it's tough to make sense of any of western history), but even outside of that there are a lot of similar structures and I do think good parenting can cover most of the bases.


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23 Sep 2017, 9:54 am

If you were a woman, tech, you'd be right in my strike zone. I get the sense that you approach things in a more methodical manner than I do, which sounds like an asset. I already enjoy our finely-grained principled disagreements, and the way we narrow down our areas of disagreement and come to useful points of agreement.

I'm a bit to the left of tech, both on the map and on the political spectrum. Also ten years older.

Being both committed to polyamory and single doesn't make a great story at this time, but I remain unconvinced that pair-bonding makes much sense these days. I do enjoy a well-organized set of mutual commitments, though.


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04 Oct 2017, 4:21 pm

I'm 30/m in Northern IL. Spooked about meeting people, don't like being around them but I can put a conversation together when I get a mind too. I walk two hours a day having discussions with podcasters in my head, try to lose weight and failing despite tons of knowledge on the subject and psychology in general, and I'm writing both a philosophy book and a fantasy novel right now. I've practically solved the problem of how to deal with women in my head... but as for real life, well, that's quite difficult. Anything new, I don't like. Anime brings peace to my life and without it I don't think I would have the will to live. Osomatsu S2 ep 1 was a masterpiece.

Not even sure about posting this, but I thought I'd give it a shot to prove to myself I can try! Girls exist, and some of them might actually be nice people, you never know until you talk to them! I have to try to convince myself of that...



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22 Apr 2018, 6:07 pm

Tristan
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Transgender/Trap Friendly!


I'd like to first say that I am CHILDFREE, which means I DO NOT want kids in my life whatsoever and would like to find someone with the same mindset

I have a Disability (Minor Cognitive Delay), so my mind's a little slower in some aspects, but I'm still like any other person!

I like Reading, Cooking and Baking once in a blue moon, Video Games (3DS, Switch, Xbox One, and PC), Listening to Music, and I'm pretty into Tea and Coffee, and maybe some more things I'm probably forgetting

I'd like to get more into exercising, hiking and photography more as well

You're more than welcome to PM Me! & I'm a very open person, so don't be afraid to ask me or talk about anything to me!


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MaizeFlower
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09 Aug 2018, 11:11 pm

I'm a 23 year old girl who is very ambitious and creative. I draw a lot of surreal art, work in IT, and do some writing for a little bit of side income. I am very sociable and have a lot of personality, I just love talking to others. I am into Artificial Intelligence as well and have built a chatbot. I make a lot of pixel art and I just love artistic analysis so much. I would love to meet someone as passionate in the visual or written arts as I am. I am into science and academics as well, but I find myself really desiring creativity currently.

Some personality traits to describe me are: Eccentric, jealous, sassy, risk taker, creative, analytical, humorous, laid back, fun, intuitive, energetic

I love having fun and indulging in things like sex and good food. I am a very sexual person and into BDSM. This is a important aspect in my life (I'm into masochism, bimbofication, and petplay).

I love traveling and am looking for a new place to eventually move to. I love learning with others as well, I have always wanted to take an online course or just learn a new subject with someone I was dating. I just want to learn what is out there as far as people. I am monogamous and really want to find a mindmate.



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17 Aug 2018, 12:13 pm

MaizeFlower wrote:
I'm a 23 year old girl who is very ambitious and creative. I draw a lot of surreal art, work in IT, and do some writing for a little bit of side income. I am very sociable and have a lot of personality, I just love talking to others. I am into Artificial Intelligence as well and have built a chatbot. I make a lot of pixel art and I just love artistic analysis so much. I would love to meet someone as passionate in the visual or written arts as I am. I am into science and academics as well, but I find myself really desiring creativity currently.

Some personality traits to describe me are: Eccentric, jealous, sassy, risk taker, creative, analytical, humorous, laid back, fun, intuitive, energetic

I love having fun and indulging in things like sex and good food. I am a very sexual person and into BDSM. This is a important aspect in my life (I'm into masochism, bimbofication, and petplay).

I love traveling and am looking for a new place to eventually move to. I love learning with others as well, I have always wanted to take an online course or just learn a new subject with someone I was dating. I just want to learn what is out there as far as people. I am monogamous and really want to find a mindmate.

I would use the word bimbofication if it didnt have this bdsm attached to it lol.



MissxVenomxPoison
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30 Aug 2018, 3:19 am

lostxprophit wrote:
Tristan
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Straight
British Columbia, Canada
Single & Looking
Transgender/Trap Friendly!


I'd like to first say that I am CHILDFREE, which means I DO NOT want kids in my life whatsoever and would like to find someone with the same mindset

I have a Disability (Minor Cognitive Delay), so my mind's a little slower in some aspects, but I'm still like any other person!

I like Reading, Cooking and Baking once in a blue moon, Video Games (3DS, Switch, Xbox One, and PC), Listening to Music, and I'm pretty into Tea and Coffee, and maybe some more things I'm probably forgetting

I'd like to get more into exercising, hiking and photography more as well

You're more than welcome to PM Me! & I'm a very open person, so don't be afraid to ask me or talk about anything to me!


Whereabouts in BC do you live



MissxVenomxPoison
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01 Sep 2018, 3:44 am

Basic Stats

Tazia Radford
26 years old
Saggitarius
Asperger's
From Vancouver, BC
Unemployed right now because losing weight is pretty much my full time job right now
Virgin much to my frustration
Live at home
Proud aunt to a 2 year old
Bisexual
Single and Looking

Interests and Fixations

Gothic subculture
Makeup
Drag Queens
Superheroes
Fashion
Wigs
Fantasy Stuff (unicorns, mermaids, fairies)
Horror Films
Rainbows
BDSM
Heels
Heavy Metal Music
Harry Potter
Criminal Case
Aliens
Sex
Death

Pet Peeves

Being asked lots of questions like "What are you doing?": I have some social anxeity, so I feel like a bug under a f*****g microscope when asked that so much
Small talk: I'm bored to death of just "Hi" "Hello" for f**k sakes
Trump supporters
People who tell women (and men) how to dress and act: I'm not a "proper" lady and I don't aspire to be one
Bigots

Goals

Losing weight (working on)
Get gall bladder surgery (I had gallstones in April)
Recover from surgery
Look for decent job after recovery
Try to find my own place
Lose virginity before 40 (I don't want to wait until marriage)

Preferences:

Taller than me
Lives in the Lower Mainland
Brash personality
Facial Hair

PM me if interested