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27 Sep 2021, 5:25 pm

We finally met each other after a crazy time of preparations and stressful new flights.
We hanged out, walked a lot, ran after trains with hot tea and cake, had made memories, popped our cherries (I even bled because r00tb33r is so thick it makes me wince) and r00tb33r proposed :heart:

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27 Sep 2021, 5:40 pm

***CONGRATULATIONS!***
***CONGRATULATIONS!***
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27 Sep 2021, 5:44 pm

Thank you! :oops:

It was so cold but it was worth it. Last 2 days it got warm. There was a themed ferrari expo in front of our apt, followed by Wolkswagen's last cars out event

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27 Sep 2021, 5:47 pm

Congratulations!! !

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27 Sep 2021, 6:08 pm

Juliette wrote:
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Thank you! Finally met my one. He's there despite the hardship and never gives up!


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27 Sep 2021, 6:35 pm

That was a beautiful proposal message. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness. XX



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27 Sep 2021, 7:07 pm

Congratulations. :heart:


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27 Sep 2021, 8:20 pm

Sweet Peas! :mrgreen: :P :mrgreen: :P


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27 Sep 2021, 11:30 pm

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28 Sep 2021, 5:03 am

Thanks blazingstar, that1weirdgrrrl.

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Sweet Peas! :mrgreen: :P :mrgreen: :P

We are making sweet pea puree, mixing up our dna. ;D (also true if that means autistic puree)


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28 Sep 2021, 5:03 am

Juliette wrote:
That was a beautiful proposal message. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness. XX

So mote it be!


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29 Sep 2021, 6:30 am

You deserve to be happy. <hug>


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29 Sep 2021, 10:21 pm

I think I missed some posts on this 8O I was following that thread you made Rexi about how it seemed like you were wanting a friendship instead of a romantic relationship & he was wanting you to marry him & move you to his country & you were not willing to relocate. I'm glad things are working out but I'm just a little confused :? :lol:


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29 Sep 2021, 10:38 pm

nick007 wrote:
I think I missed some posts on this 8O I was following that thread you made Rexi about how it seemed like you were wanting a friendship instead of a romantic relationship & he was wanting you to marry him & move you to his country & you were not willing to relocate. I'm glad things are working out but I'm just a little confused :? :lol:


I hope Rexi realises how hard it is for me not to comment here. :mrgreen:
Not even a hint, sorry. 8)


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30 Sep 2021, 11:07 am

nick007 wrote:
I think I missed some posts on this 8O I was following that thread you made Rexi about how it seemed like you were wanting a friendship instead of a romantic relationship & he was wanting you to marry him & move you to his country & you were not willing to relocate. I'm glad things are working out but I'm just a little confused :? :lol:

You're completely right. I wanted to give us a chance. It's been really hard and it still is, I dont particularly enjoy relationships. I guess he touched my heart and made me believe that something could work where im involved. I have a lot of struggles and hes tired of my issues already. He's still sweet though in the end, despite the hardships we have.
I dont know what to say to you, it's not easy for me at all, I just want to build a life with him though, and i dont even know if i can be a productive adult to be able to take care of house tasks, call people, do everything that 's needed in a house as we will live on our own.

I've been for a long time going to doctors, trying to fix issues in my city, hes sent money for them but i felt so much stress and pressure, tasks added constantly, the trip, buy things like insoles and other things that may help my knee, mri, i have a meniscus tear, have to think about getting treatment here beause its too expensive in America and i dont feel comfortable about treating it here because its a high risk for infections in hospitals here but also i just feel overwhelmed we have to work on our k1 visa too and whats been in the past months for me its been so crazy and stressful i had to do so many things and it felt heavy. It's depressing exhausting and i dont feel i can do it again. I'll have time but as soon as they send me the interview schedule email ill have to already have been ready to go to Bucharest or book a physical exam thing as i need it before the embassy interview.

He hasnt told his parents we're even engaged yet, but hes told them that he cant get me to do anything. It makes him sad and desperate that i feel so exhausted and tired and just want to focus on the visa and just leave and be there with him. He feels like what i do here means what id do there for our house and he needs a lot of help to take care of the house. He works all the time, he has no time for anything else much.

I'm scared, im not gonna lie. I'm scared and worried. I dislike earlier he said he should marry Google instead when i said i offered to help him look things up. But now he held me again and things seem like they could be good.

I've been trying to reach a plumber for months now to fix multiple issues in the appartment, I wasnt able to get it fixed, they didnt answer and some are known to be doing uncool things, bad people. I'll keep on trying, rn im in quarantine and have bronchitis though i cant. It oftentimes feels so hard to get things like this done. This has been more difficult than the other things i fixed faster in the recent past. I'm not used to this lifestyle of many tasks at all. I need patience and time, to make decisions to conserve my energy and there's none to have because he just wants me to be functional and works constantly, provides finances constantly and resents me, also worries if i can be enough for a life with him as do I.

I need to get out of here and make a life. I want a happy life with him. But I feel like ill be failing and get my heart broken. The things i need to take care of on my own are very tough. What do I do? Time flies and I still can't do things as others can


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30 Sep 2021, 12:01 pm

Pepe wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think I missed some posts on this 8O I was following that thread you made Rexi about how it seemed like you were wanting a friendship instead of a romantic relationship & he was wanting you to marry him & move you to his country & you were not willing to relocate. I'm glad things are working out but I'm just a little confused :? :lol:


I hope Rexi realises how hard it is for me not to comment here. :mrgreen:
Not even a hint, sorry. 8)

That's fine. Talk to me. I need a friend. even more so one who's overwhelmed and not able to resist. I dont mind mistakes and its fine that you posted in this thread. And goofiness is a plus.

What's been happening in your life?

I know it seems like I've forgotten our interactions, I think it's time we talk about cool things again. I guess we can't hijack it with politics though. The only section we can talk about multiple topics is lacking lol.


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