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The_Face_of_Boo
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20 Dec 2021, 9:38 am

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My true feeling...is that I wish women felt more pleasure within their "first time."

My high school girlfriend was a virgin----and she had a very hard time the first few times.


That's often true for men too.


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20 Dec 2021, 9:39 am

For many people, experience in sex is the best teacher.

It certainly didn't come naturally for me at first....



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20 Dec 2021, 10:30 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
For many people, experience in sex is the best teacher.

It certainly didn't come naturally for me at first....



I have never been offered sex by a woman at a party or nightclub/bar :(

Even now that I workout loads I have yet to still have sex aged 32 8O



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20 Dec 2021, 10:37 am

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I have never been offered sex by a woman at a party or nightclub/bar.  Even now that I workout loads I have yet to still have sex aged 32.
I likely has nothing to do with your looks.



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20 Dec 2021, 10:40 am

Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I have never been offered sex by a woman at a party or nightclub/bar.  Even now that I workout loads I have yet to still have sex aged 32.
I likely has nothing to do with your looks.



is it because aspie guys are clueless on how to go about getting sex?


Not that this is really relevant to us aspies but I remember reading an article back from 2009 where a mother desperately tried to get sex for her down syndrome son. I think she tried to take her so to Amsterdam so he could have sex with a prostitute.


actually just found the article here
https://tinyurl.com/2p9dnt8f



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20 Dec 2021, 11:02 am

Jamesy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I have never been offered sex by a woman at a party or nightclub/bar.  Even now that I workout loads I have yet to still have sex aged 32.
It likely has nothing to do with your looks.
is it because aspie guys are clueless on how to go about getting sex? ...
No, it is about desperate men believing that sex with a woman is something they should "get".



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20 Dec 2021, 11:05 am

Fnord wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I have never been offered sex by a woman at a party or nightclub/bar.  Even now that I workout loads I have yet to still have sex aged 32.
It likely has nothing to do with your looks.
is it because aspie guys are clueless on how to go about getting sex? ...
No, it is about desperate men believing that sex with a woman is something they should "get".




Yeah entitlement basically

What did you think of the article I posted about the down syndrome man?



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20 Dec 2021, 11:27 am

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... What did you think of the article I posted about the down syndrome man?
I did not read it because it is behind a paywall.



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20 Dec 2021, 11:32 am

There used to be some sort of "custom" whereby a man, upon his 21st birthday, was taken to a prostitute. I don't know how common that was---but I've read that this happened multiple times.

My personal feeling is that sex should be consensual, for free, between people who are attracted to each other. I prefer only one woman, not more than one woman at a time, or any man.



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20 Dec 2021, 12:59 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
My true feeling...is that I wish women felt more pleasure within their "first time."

My high school girlfriend was a virgin----and she had a very hard time the first few times.


That's often true for men too.

This depends on your definition of virginity. If two people who are attracted to each other get naked and then engage in a snogging session, and aren't inhibited by some sort of anxiety, they'll probably both enjoy it even if neither has done so before. Unfortunately it never works that way in Hollywood, which explains all the bad experiences.

However I doubt the OP and his current "girlfriend" have indulged in any naked snogging.


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20 Dec 2021, 4:30 pm

it seems 25 is considered the starting age number in which people are seen or viewed by society for being in the extreme minority for never having had sexual intercourse



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20 Dec 2021, 4:39 pm

My sentiments are "whatever floats your boat". Being a virgin/not being a virgin is a personal choice; who cares why whatever decision was made?



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21 Dec 2021, 4:50 am

WantToHaveALife wrote:
it seems 25 is considered the starting age number in which people are seen or viewed by society for being in the extreme minority for never having had sexual intercourse



guess I am in the extreme minority then



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21 Dec 2021, 7:53 pm

Could men who are virgins just find some extremely socially awkward women who they have a better chance of loosing it with, or do most guys, even the popular ones, not mind if a woman is socially awkward, because that kind of thing just doesn't phase them?



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21 Dec 2021, 11:59 pm

So if I was a 30 year old virgin, or hell even older and the guy I was dating spat out the kind of attitude, that the OP did, I'd be shutting the door on his face.

Better be true and respectful to myself and die a virgin than deal with that bs IMO


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22 Dec 2021, 12:08 am

Jamesy wrote:
is it because aspie guys are clueless on how to go about getting sex?


Before learning how to walk first learn to crawl. From what I've seen on this forum even plucking the courage to approach and then talking to an NT girl is challenging let alone dating, friendships, relationships and hookups.