Essential Love & Dating Advice (By and For WP Members)

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idntonkw
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29 Jun 2020, 3:42 am

rhoades24 wrote:
Teach51 wrote:


Obviously Rhoades thinks that his view of all things pertaining to human relations reigns supreme, and we empty headed women understand nothing about .....women.
He also considers It legitimate to squash and dissect any kind person who takes the trouble to stop a moment, and tries to assist him in alleviating his problems, out of pure empathy and good intentions.

Rhoades can stick his fingers in his ears, squeeze his eyes shut and stick out his tongue but it won't help him learn about women and their needs and mindset.

Badly done Rhoades. You have an opportunity to hone your people skills here and you are not exactly excelling. A little humility is necessary if we want to be liked. Nobody enjoys being talked down to.


My intuition tells me that there is no treatment or any form of help that can help my situation. I wasn't expecting anyone to assist me on here. I had hoped I would absorb some or a small amount of the advice, but much of it I've tried over and over at a number I've lost track of. So none of it really helps. Forums are worse places to get advice, I think I'm mostly here to vent and get the dopamine stimulation of posting to others since I have no contact with any people in real life. That seems to be the dumb reason I'm here and eventually I'll disappear and leave you all in peace as I am fairly certain I am probably the bad guy on here. I don't deny I'm probably the bad guy.


Yes, Wrongplanet and forums give me a temporary dopamine boost, but they make me feel worse overall.. I felt better before I discovered Wrongplanet ten years ago. Before that, I was on radio control model forums, and that was kind of a nice distraction to help me deal with college and career worry stress..

Some men with autism can get a woman! But if you lack the personality qualities which are... not being stand offish and negative and being somewhat companionable, open and believing in yourself and the woman.. women are willing to date losers if they strike the right chords personality wise.. I am what is called a volcell? where women were interested in me initially based on my looks, but I drove them away with my personality within a day..



idntonkw
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Joined: 29 Apr 2020
Age: 34
Posts: 467
Location: Boston

29 Jun 2020, 3:48 am

rhoades24 wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:

I think you are experiencing confirmation bias. I doubt all that many women want this perfect guy. I certainly don’t.

Are you looking for the perfect woman?


I'm just looking for a woman who I'm sexually attracted to. Not so concerned about her body except not be fat and have healthy weight like me, maybe one who exercises, lifts weights, does yoga, dances, etc.

And have a beautiful face. No specific face, but a face that when I see it it makes my heart beat faster and faster almost like having tachycardia. An ability for us to talk about anything without feeling awkward. And warmth at night. Going to sleep and feeling her warmth; a blanket of warmth that sedates me.

That's it. Nothing else. Is that a lot to ask for maybe? If so then I'm doomed.


If you can find a way to stop watching porn, that will help attract women to you and also change your desire towards women.. I have been emotionally dependent and interested in porn since I was like 10 years old.. and now in my mid thirties I still have not given it up.. but if you can believe in yourself enough to quit watching porn, it will change your brain into something that is better for interacting with a woman.