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01 Dec 2021, 12:32 am

i found my older sister dead today when i visited her house. this was something i dreaded for a while now. presently her house is full of sad folks. i feel alone. i am "the only one" of us left, as both brothers live far away and won't visit. i am adrift.



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01 Dec 2021, 12:34 am

Sorry for your loss :(



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01 Dec 2021, 12:39 am

^^^thank you Katz :heart:



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01 Dec 2021, 12:41 am

auntblabby wrote:
^^^thank you Katz :heart:


I'm sure you have lots of friends here who will keep you company ( virtually ) while you are adrift :heart:



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01 Dec 2021, 12:42 am

Oh blabbs --- that's so horrible. I'm so sorry for your loss and for what you experienced.

Message me if you need support.

Strangely, I had a premonition about that today.



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01 Dec 2021, 12:56 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh blabbs --- that's so horrible. I'm so sorry for your loss and for what you experienced.

Message me if you need support.

Strangely, I had a premonition about that today.

thank you izzy, will do just that. :heart:



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01 Dec 2021, 2:44 am

So sorry to hear, dear AB. May she rest in peace.



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01 Dec 2021, 2:56 am

Sorry to hear about your sister Blabby. Wherever she is now I hope she finds peace.



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01 Dec 2021, 3:24 am

^^^thank you very much Juliette and Cyber :heart:



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01 Dec 2021, 3:28 am

seeing one's sister dead on the floor clutching her phone, and having to pry that phone from her dead hands, warped my mind. she looked like she was just sleeping. eternal sleep.



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01 Dec 2021, 4:30 am

auntblabby wrote:
seeing one's sister dead on the floor clutching her phone, and having to pry that phone from her dead hands, warped my mind. she looked like she was just sleeping. eternal sleep.


Please talk to somebody Blabby, you should not try and deal with your sister alone.



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01 Dec 2021, 4:46 am

My Sympathies.

(I’ve been going through this, and the resulting depression, since my father died from cancer of the liver in 1986 (2 weeks before his 51st birthday) and mom bled out on me back in 2011.

It explains why I’m unable to sleep lately, why I’ve been stuffing my fat face again with junk, and have been a total prick lately.)



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01 Dec 2021, 5:15 am

MuddRM wrote:
My Sympathies. (I’ve been going through this, and the resulting depression, since my father died from cancer of the liver in 1986 (2 weeks before his 51st birthday) and mom bled out on me back in 2011.
It explains why I’m unable to sleep lately, why I’ve been stuffing my fat face again with junk, and have been a total prick lately.)

thank you for caring :heart: death is a funny thing, it comes often by surprise and often when one steps out for a bit.



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01 Dec 2021, 5:16 am

cyberdad wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
seeing one's sister dead on the floor clutching her phone, and having to pry that phone from her dead hands, warped my mind. she looked like she was just sleeping. eternal sleep.


Please talk to somebody Blabby, you should not try and deal with your sister alone.

her house was full of relations and friends, we talked it out. thank you. :) :flower:



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01 Dec 2021, 5:33 am

I am so sorry! Many hugs. :heart: :heart: :heart:


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01 Dec 2021, 5:41 am

blazingstar wrote:
I am so sorry! Many hugs. :heart: :heart: :heart:

thank you Blaze :heart: