Ex possibly drugged me & emotionally abused me

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06 Sep 2022, 11:40 am

Will be providing the most important parts in bullet points for you guys to better assess the situation. 

- Knew this girl for 5 years before dating, she knows everything about me, including having high function ASD

-  First date she was showering me with gifts such as crystals,crackers,candy,blankets  ( was done in a HERE it's for YOU take it, kind of way)

-   Talked to me everyday, tons of emojis, kept referring to us as "us" talked about going on trips with me

- Told me on the first date all her ex's are bad and evil

- After a few weeks told me I am the most amazing guy ever and the greatest guy in the world

- At some point later on in the month tells me all of her Boyfriends HAVE to have a therapist, if the person she is seeing does not get one then the relationship will only be short term. Says I need paper proof ( So basically an ultimatum)

- Tells me at some point I need to show her proof of a STD test if we are going to be intimate. ( somewhat understandable) Says I need paper proof

- I go over her house and we are eating weed brownies and I feel all relaxed, I am a lightweight in general with weed but the effect I get is usually melting relaxed feeling. So we go to her backyard and I smoke her joint and all of a sudden I can taste this blueberry taste mixed with fiber glass industrial chemical smell. In 5 seconds I felt like I just drank 50 redbulls and I could do anything, after about a 50 seconds I blacked out. When I was on the couch and woke up she was using this opportunity to give me a speech about empowerment and how she tech could bring her to her room but shes going to flex her power on me and smirked. ( mind u I just wanted to stay in the living room) then I almost blacked out again and told her I can't feel my body, instead of calling 911 she decides to go outside and smoke some more, then after about a hour went into the kitchen while humming and packed my bag with goodies such as cupcakes and starburst fruit chews. I kept saying I couldn't move and she said lets go come on with a smile. She drove me home. When I got home I fell on the floor and had to call 911.


- During a planning session to hang out a few days later, I gave her about 12 different scenarios on what to do and what we are doing that week, when she got angry from me asking too many questions she basically said I have to be accommodating to her needs or this relationship is not going to work ( giving me another ultimatum ) I called her bluff and she rapid fire called my phone 20 times, after the 20th time I finally clicked green and accepted the call, told her she was abusive and I didn't like how she was treating me. She then screamed and rage quitted.


Notes about her to better help u understand how she is :

- She said her brain is like a library and different parts of brain are put back in and out.
- Had bad stuff happen to her
- Mostly all of her ex's were bad and crazy
- Works for tons of foundations and causes, mostly her whole identity is working for any kind of cause
- Was kicked out of her house by her parents for a month and disowned for unknown reasons.
- Has weird scabs,knicks and line marks on her arms.



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06 Sep 2022, 11:51 am

That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D



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06 Sep 2022, 11:52 am

It changed my life. :heart:


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06 Sep 2022, 12:00 pm

I posted the real post on here, it may have come up twice and said awaiting mod approval.
Was basically taken advantaged of and I think drugged.

When it shows up in here you will see it, Mods I may have posted the same post twice
when you allow it to be shown here. Just FYI



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06 Sep 2022, 12:02 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D


Thanks, the real thread is pending mod approval right now, I might have been taken advantaged of and drugged.
So when the mods approve the thread u will see it. For some reason this thread didn't need mod approval but that does.



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06 Sep 2022, 12:05 pm

CableBlackBox wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D


Thanks, the real thread is pending mod approval right now, I might have been taken advantaged of and drugged.
So when the mods approve the thread u will see it. For some reason this thread didn't need mod approval but that does.

Wow! That’s awful!

Has this happened recently?

If so, you should go to the hospital and get checked out.


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06 Sep 2022, 12:05 pm

CableBlackBox wrote:
I posted the real post on here, it may have come up twice and said awaiting mod approval.
Was basically taken advantaged of and I think drugged.

When it shows up in here you will see it, Mods I may have posted the same post twice
when you allow it to be shown here. Just FYI

What Twilightprincess said above.

I'm really sorry, OP. And for my earlier post.


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06 Sep 2022, 12:07 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
CableBlackBox wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D


Thanks, the real thread is pending mod approval right now, I might have been taken advantaged of and drugged.
So when the mods approve the thread u will see it. For some reason this thread didn't need mod approval but that does.

Wow! That’s rough!

Has this happened recently?

If so, you should go to the hospital and get checked out.


it's a long story but I have everything in bullet points bolded for you. Any idea when mods approve threads ?
Also any reason why this was approved but not that ? Anyone that has any pull here would be greatly appreciated.
May have been dealing with a TedBundy style type person that is involved with several foundations/causes etc



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06 Sep 2022, 12:08 pm

Where_am_I wrote:
CableBlackBox wrote:
I posted the real post on here, it may have come up twice and said awaiting mod approval.
Was basically taken advantaged of and I think drugged.

When it shows up in here you will see it, Mods I may have posted the same post twice
when you allow it to be shown here. Just FYI

What Twilightprincess said above.

I'm really sorry, OP. And for my earlier post.


No worries, if anyone has any idea of when mods approve posts let me know. It's a long post
but I have everything in bullet points for you guys to deconstruct play by play.



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06 Sep 2022, 12:13 pm

CableBlackBox wrote:
it's a long story but I have everything in bullet points bolded for you. Any idea when mods approve threads ?
There's no mechanism for mods "approving threads" on WrongPlanet.net. I have no knowledge it ever existed.
CableBlackBox wrote:
Also any reason why this was approved but not that ? Anyone that has any pull here would be greatly appreciated.
May have been dealing with a TedBundy style type person that is involved with several foundations/causes etc
The rules of WrongPlanet.net:
viewtopic.php?t=73832
The rules of The Haven:
viewtopic.php?t=297515
The guidelines for PPR:
viewtopic.php?t=204613
Unwritten but enforced rule (awaiting next official rules update): no threads on "we (some group) have it worse than you (some other group)!" Threads like "we (some group) have it bad" (without comparing it to experiences one never had) are okay.

Anything within these rules is generally accepted.


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06 Sep 2022, 12:25 pm

magz wrote:
CableBlackBox wrote:
it's a long story but I have everything in bullet points bolded for you. Any idea when mods approve threads ?
There's no mechanism for mods "approving threads" on WrongPlanet.net. I have no knowledge it ever existed.
CableBlackBox wrote:
Also any reason why this was approved but not that ? Anyone that has any pull here would be greatly appreciated.
May have been dealing with a TedBundy style type person that is involved with several foundations/causes etc
The rules of WrongPlanet.net:
viewtopic.php?t=73832
The rules of The Haven:
viewtopic.php?t=297515
The guidelines for PPR:
viewtopic.php?t=204613
Unwritten but enforced rule (awaiting next official rules update): no threads on "we (some group) have it worse than you (some other group)!" Threads like "we (some group) have it bad" (without comparing it to experiences one never had) are okay.

Anything within these rules is generally accepted.


I don't think it went against any of those rules at all, is there any way u guys can send me a copy of the thread and I can just repost it ?



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06 Sep 2022, 12:40 pm

I have no access to any copy of the original post and nothing shows in the moderation logs.
Sorry.


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06 Sep 2022, 12:42 pm

magz wrote:
I have no access to any copy of the original post and nothing shows in the moderation logs.
Sorry.


Alright, Ill just make this the thread



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06 Sep 2022, 12:55 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D



Post updated with the story



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06 Sep 2022, 12:56 pm

Where_am_I wrote:
CableBlackBox wrote:
I posted the real post on here, it may have come up twice and said awaiting mod approval.
Was basically taken advantaged of and I think drugged.

When it shows up in here you will see it, Mods I may have posted the same post twice
when you allow it to be shown here. Just FYI

What Twilightprincess said above.

I'm really sorry, OP. And for my earlier post.


Post updated with the story



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06 Sep 2022, 12:56 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
CableBlackBox wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
That was the most insightful post that I have ever read ... in the L+D Forum! :D


Thanks, the real thread is pending mod approval right now, I might have been taken advantaged of and drugged.
So when the mods approve the thread u will see it. For some reason this thread didn't need mod approval but that does.

Wow! That’s awful!

Has this happened recently?

If so, you should go to the hospital and get checked out.


Thread post changed to the full story of events