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r00tb33r
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03 Dec 2022, 8:42 am

Monica: An Open-Source App for Personal Relationship Management

Useful for them creeps that try to date multiple people at a time. For keeping the lies and stories straight, and taking notes on people when there are too many.


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05 Dec 2022, 12:07 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
Monica: An Open-Source App for Personal Relationship Management

Useful for them creeps that try to date multiple people at a time. For keeping the lies and stories straight, and taking notes on people when there are too many.


Wut? :?

You mean normal people that go on dates and see if they're interested in second/third successive dates & possibly furthering a relationship with one of the people they've gone on dates with?

It's pretty damned normal that people who are going out on dates and aren't exclusively dating one person in a committed relationship to date multiple people.. 2, 3+ different people at a time. That's how these things tend to work.. if someone goes on a first date with someone and there isn't an Instant Connection where they don't want to entertain the idea of dating someone different and someone else comes along that they'd like to go out with, they'll go on a date with that someone else or multiple others, weight their options and make decisions later as to whom they might want to date further or not - or multiple people for some.

Dating isn't necessarily choosing one person to date as if you're married. Until people decide to be in a committed relationship, they're free agents able to meet up with multiple people and test the waters should the opportunity & interest arise.


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06 Dec 2022, 1:33 am

goldfish21 wrote:
Dating isn't necessarily choosing one person to date as if you're married. Until people decide to be in a committed relationship, they're free agents able to meet up with multiple people and test the waters should the opportunity & interest arise.

I agree that that's how it SHOULD be. Alas, some people expect instant monogamy from the get-go.


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