Which type of guy is your favourite?

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Which do you like best
The overweight/obese cuddly bear type of guy 33%  33%  [ 2 ]
Skinny type of guy 17%  17%  [ 1 ]
Bodybuilder type of guy 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
slim athletic type 33%  33%  [ 2 ]
No preference 17%  17%  [ 1 ]
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05 Dec 2022, 10:26 am

Girls do you prefer the fat cuddly bear type of guy, the muscular body builder look, the slim athletic guy or the skinny man?



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05 Dec 2022, 10:46 am

My type is a nice guy.


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05 Dec 2022, 10:51 am

Where_am_I wrote:
My type is a nice guy.



Used to be friends with a guy who was 5ft6-5ft7 and weighed 225 pounds and he was really popular with the ladies even though he dominated and bullied me alot. Might have been partly due to the fact he looked like Jack Black who is very likeable.

That said he did once try to kiss a girl and she spat water in his face :lol:



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05 Dec 2022, 10:57 am

1 all the way, assuming "normal" isn't on the list.

I like strong arms but they don't have to look muscular.

Beyond that, yup ... nice guy, funny guy, humble guy, and guy with moral integrity all top my list.



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05 Dec 2022, 11:06 am

I have seen short and tall guys who are obese that are well liked by women. On nights out i have never seen a man who is short and skinny that is popular with women.

I think if your short and to thin the skinnyness on top if your stature just makes girls despise you more.

At 5ft7.75 when I weighed 143 pounds aged 24 the slim girls did not like me as much whereas the fat girls liked me. Now i weigh closer to 168 lbs I no longer attract fat women.



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05 Dec 2022, 11:08 am

I feel "despise" is a mighty hyperbolic word.

I don't believe most women who don't sexually desire a man-----actually "despise" that particular man.

Just like a man doesn't "despise" a woman with whom they don't feel a sexual attraction.

I'm not exactly delighted when I know a woman doesn't find me attractive----but....that's the way the ball bounces sometimes!



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05 Dec 2022, 11:14 am

Jamesy wrote:
Where_am_I wrote:
My type is a nice guy.



Used to be friends with a guy who was 5ft6-5ft7 and weighed 225 pounds and he was really popular with the ladies even though he dominated and bullied me alot. Might have been partly due to the fact he looked like Jack Black who is very likeable.

That said he did once try to kiss a girl and she spat water in his face :lol:

That's not my idea of a nice guy.


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05 Dec 2022, 11:20 am

Where_am_I wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Where_am_I wrote:
My type is a nice guy.



Used to be friends with a guy who was 5ft6-5ft7 and weighed 225 pounds and he was really popular with the ladies even though he dominated and bullied me alot. Might have been partly due to the fact he looked like Jack Black who is very likeable.

That said he did once try to kiss a girl and she spat water in his face :lol:

That's not my idea of a nice guy.



Well the ladies would always talk to him on nights out.

Maybe younger women inparticular like douchbag/jerk type of guy?



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05 Dec 2022, 11:22 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I feel "despise" is a mighty hyperbolic word.

I don't believe most women who don't sexually desire a man-----actually "despise" that particular man.

Just like a man doesn't "despise" a woman with whom they don't feel a sexual attraction.

I'm not exactly delighted when I know a woman doesn't find me attractive----but....that's the way the ball bounces sometimes!



Well maybe dislike would be a better way of putting it. I know now I have beefed up I command a bit more respect (not a lot more though) from people compared to when I was skinny.



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05 Dec 2022, 11:23 am

Jamesy wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I feel "despise" is a mighty hyperbolic word.

I don't believe most women who don't sexually desire a man-----actually "despise" that particular man.

Just like a man doesn't "despise" a woman with whom they don't feel a sexual attraction.

I'm not exactly delighted when I know a woman doesn't find me attractive----but....that's the way the ball bounces sometimes!



Well maybe dislike would be a better of putting it. I know I have beefed up I command a bit more respect (not a lot more though) from people compared to when I was skinny.



How do you know that your size was the reason?
Maybe their "dislike" was based on personality, or other factors?
It could all be a coincidence.
You hyperfocus on size, so you think others do too.



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05 Dec 2022, 11:24 am

That's a really dumb question/assumption.

I certainly didn't go for douchebags/jerks.

(My response was for Jamesy!)


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05 Dec 2022, 11:31 am

Where_am_I wrote:
That's a really dumb question/assumption.

I certainly didn't go for douchebags/jerks.

(My response was for Jamesy!)



5 years ago I met another jerk who came over to the UK from Canada and a lot of women liked him. He also bullied me by the way and he even made fun of my skinny physique at the time.


Come to think of it maybe the pedophile rumours/being long term unemployed are the reason for the bullying. But that's another story



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05 Dec 2022, 11:35 am

Sounds like a dick.


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05 Dec 2022, 11:36 am

Where_am_I wrote:
Sounds like a dick.



Yet a lot of girls liked him.

He liked to make fun of my effeminate appearance I think to.



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05 Dec 2022, 1:06 pm

Definitely the overweight cuddly bear type. I just feel attracted to them. I find young slim men around my age with a neat beard just boring. Fat overweight guys seem to look more like individuals. I don't know, maybe I haven't explained it right, but a guy doesn't need to muscle build and look neat and drive a loud sports car to impress me. I prefer an overweight, balding lorry driver with a hillbilly-type persona. Or something like that (not stereotyping here but just want you to picture what I'm talking about).


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05 Dec 2022, 1:29 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Definitely the overweight cuddly bear type. I just feel attracted to them. I find young slim men around my age with a neat beard just boring. Fat overweight guys seem to look more like individuals. I don't know, maybe I haven't explained it right, but a guy doesn't need to muscle build and look neat and drive a loud sports car to impress me. I prefer an overweight, balding lorry driver with a hillbilly-type persona. Or something like that (not stereotyping here but just want you to picture what I'm talking about).




You do realise being very overweight is terrible for health blood pressure etc….