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15 Dec 2022, 7:33 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Why would a girl briefly be romantically interested in a guy then become disinterested?
I combined my answers with those of Isabella Linton, added a few more of my own, and edited the result for a third-person perspective.

• He accuses her of things she has not done.
• He already knows too much about her (e.g., he is a stalker).
• He behaves like a narcissist.
• He blames her for his own mistakes.
• He does not respect other people's personal boundaries, especially hers.
• He gaslights . . . anyone . . . ever.
• He hacks her email account or cellphone.
• He has learned very little about her.
• He is disrespectful to her.
• He is jealous of the attention she pays her kids.
• He lies, especially to her.
• He love-bombs her.
• He sincerely believes that 'no' means 'yes', especially when it comes to sex.
• He smells bad.
• He steals, especially from her or her kids.
• He takes more than he gives (emotionally, financially, physically, et cetera).
• He talks down to her.
• He talks too much (or too little).
• He treats her body as his personal property.
• He wants her to provide free emotional or psychological therapy.
• He will not stop staring at her breasts, no matter how well she conceals them.
• She feels no 'chemistry' when they touch.
• She finds out that he already has at least one boyfriend or girlfriend.
• She finds out that he does not share her likes and dislikes (animals, books, children, et cetera).
• She finds out that he has a bad reputation with women.
• She finds out that he has a developmental, emotional, intellectual, and/or perceptive disorder.
• She finds out that he has a history of falling in love with multiple people (e.g., polyamory).
• She finds out that he has addictions (gambling in particular).
• She finds out that he has anger management issues.
• She finds out that he has fathered at least one child by another woman.
• She finds out that he has no job, is chronically unemployed, or is completely unemployable.
• She finds out that he has only a primary education (if that much).
• She finds out that he is a "Momma's Boy".
• She finds out that he is already married or in a committed relationship.
• She finds out that he is boring.
• She finds out that he is gay.
• She finds out that he is not what she thought he was (maybe he lied or exaggerated his worth).
• She finds out that he is on the dole.
• She finds out that he is part of a criminal gang or syndicate.
• She finds out that he is recently divorced.
• She finds out that he is recently paroled.
• She finds out that he is wanted by law-enforcement.
• She finds out that he likes her only for her appearance.
• She finds out that he lives in council housing or "The Projects".
• She finds out that he needs constant praise and validation.
• She finds out that he still lives with his parents.
• She was not really interested in the first place (possibly using him to access or avoid someone else).
• She witnesses him being bullied.
• She witnesses him being drunk.
• She witnesses him bullying someone else.
• She witnesses him flirting with other women.


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21 Dec 2022, 8:34 am

Because of my bad driving skills.


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23 Dec 2022, 10:44 pm

Because I will not be moving out for the first time soon.

My first apartment will happen within the next 2-3 years.


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