quite an extreme wrote:
Sorry but the really better way is just to learn to crush on a girl
WTF???
Having a crush on someone is, in the experience of all too many autistic people (and many other people too, for that matter), not at all likely to help one make a good impression on the person one has a crush on.
On the contrary, it is far more likely that the person whom one has a crush on will feel creeped out.
quite an extreme wrote:
and to cause her crushing on you as well.
WTF?
Maybe this can be done by people who are both super-exceptionally good-looking and super-exceptionally charming???
quite an extreme wrote:
Yes it's possible but it may be a hard way to learn for an aspie.
Obviously not feasible for the vast majority of autistic people, and not merely because of being "hard to learn."
Lots of people feel nervous around crushes & make bad impressions as a result.
I think it would be easier to just find someone interested in us or who would be willing to give us a chance. Then we try to make a decent impression on em & the crush feelings can develop after we get to know each other more.
Raleigh wrote:
If you're in highschool it would be ok, because that's what kids do, but if you're an adult it could be seen as a bit lame to ask a friend to set you up with someone.
It isn't just kids who do this. Indeed it used to be quite commonplace among adults before the Internet era.
01 Jan 2023, 9:36 pm
